I believe that it is due time for me to do my best to make our marriage be what it was created to be. I cannot be concerned about what my husband is or isn't doing. I cannot make any excuses about why our marriage is not solid right now. I accept responsibility for my actions and my part towards restoring our marriage. I am ready to enjoy our life together as husband and wife. Let this Love Dare journey begin!
how did you decide to just do the dare no matter what he was doing i dont feal like my husband is trying anymore and I dont think i want to convince someone to love and appreciate me if they dont what would you do?
I understand what you are saying "Godhelpusbeone", however; this dare is not just about your husband. you are not taking this dare so that he will change or so that he will do what you want or treat you how you think you should be treated. This dare is for you to realize why God has created marriage and why he has allowed you to join that wonderful circle. This dare is for you to learn how to love unconditionally REGARDLESS of what your husband or anyone else may do. because that is what YOU agreed to when you chose to marry him. If this is what you meant than choosing to take this dare should be simple.