The Dare today asked to pray for your partner, I do that every day especially when I am on my walk, I am surrounded by the beauty of nature and there are no distractions like the computer, tv or phone to interupt my thought process. It also said do something...

The dare yesterday was Love Makes Sacrifices.. Since we were both involved with the youth mission at the church we did not see each other a lot but in the morning he remembered that he needed his shower shoes for the gym. I made a special trip to take...

My husband is retired military, our marriage pretty much spanned his entire career!! We military spouses think we understand sacrifice, we do but until you love unconditionally you have no idea what true sacrifice means. Since we are so busy with the...

Yesterday was pretty easy for me in regard to the actual dare.. Lowering or removing my expectations from my husband was something I decided to do about 3 years ago, after I realized that the biggest part of the problem we had during all the drama that...

Today has actually been a great day.. We started the morning greeting each other with a kiss and a hug.. I told him that I genuinely apologize for the way I've acted in the past and it is my desire to take ownership for all of my misdeeds and over...

It is amazing to me when I think of how many times I've said to someone I forgive you, mouthing the words do not really mean anything if there is not a convicition from God and the holy spirit. I thought of something that happened in my marriage about...

I have to tell everyone that normally even with Christian oriented "self help" books my interest wanes some where between the 4th or 5th day, my library of these types of books is so large that I think I almost have a doctorate in psychology...

I really did not have to do much soul searching to determine what I lust for, by walking in my house or looking in my closet.. My desire to fill up the emptiness of my heart with material things has wrecked havoc on our family finances which is putting...

This one too was kind of difficult. I kept thinking in the fleshly sense of addictions, drugs, alcohol. So I started thinking and praying, it came to me that I've been addicted to anxiety for the longest time-A therapist told me once that we can be...

Yesterday, What can I say? My husband is responding as everyone said he was going to by his conviction. I sent him an email that said: I love you: I choose to love you even if you don't love me.. He read it when he got home from work, the response...

Today's dare was to begin reading your bible, this was Monday I already have a devotional time every morning with Our Daily Bread and My Utmost For his Highest, they have scriptures-the challenge is to find a family or couples devotional time.. I...

This one was actually pretty easy today!! In church today our pastor asked all of us who hadn't given our lives over to Christ to do so and for those of us who needed to reafirm our committment to do so as well. I gave my heart back to Christ!! I...

Thinking back on all of the dares so far.. The hardest dares for me are the dares when I didn't have to take any sort of physical action, since he discovered that I am doing this it is like he tries extremely hard to keep me engaged in the old negative...

This dare was on Friday! I have to say this was one of the most difficult dares because early on he "caught me" in the act of writing and reading the book. We planned a special day as he had a day off, it was really a good day, through Christ...

I've kept the majority of my husband's secrets, I know he's kept mine but routinely uses them to make me feel bad, like the fact that I had a past in the biblical sense and he did not. He is not jealous, but envious that I had some "past"...

I woke up yesterday morning feeling so selfish, I felt that if I prayed for my husband, I would really be praying for a result I wanted for myself. I talk to God a lot while I am on my morning walk, during my walk I felt he spoke to me in regard to these...

This one had me scratching my head too, I already do so much for him, I looked on the website and found someone elses words and paraphrased them and used them myself it is a beautiful statement. I say thank you to my brother for his words.. Of all my...

This one had me scratching my head this morning, I thought what can I do? What can we do? Then I remembered my husband saying something about having bible study at the beach (we literally live about 5 minutes away from some of the most beautiful beaches...

I asked my husband if we could set rules of "engagement" for arguements..he said he only needs one to walk away cool off and come back to the discussion with a cooler head!! That is so much progress! I don't think he would have even agreed...

I picked golf as the issue to focus on giving into. I actually started last night. My husband seems to focus on the what and not the why, right now with the help of Jesus I am learning a lot about myself and why I react to things the way I do. He's...

These 11 days have been both short and long, easy and difficult for me. I realized I had already been doing most of the things that we've been told to do in the 1st 10 dares, what I see now studying in the book and in other scriptures is really that...

Normally I do the laundry, but my husband does his work clothes once a week, I am doing his work clothes for him today. Don't care how he responds, it is not about that. The expecation of a certain response is my fleshly desire for something from...

Sean was right about our actions convicting our partner.. He started in on me this morning with some really weird-not mean-just weird questions..Did I make him fat so no one would look at him? I shouldn't even say the other on this site, but basicall...

I need help with providing rebukes to my husband in a constructive loving way. He knows how much I love him and want to please him and at times is sadistic doing things like purposely hurting me-an example-over the weekend we see a young woman coming...

I need help with providing rebukes to my husband in a constructive loving way. He knows how much I love him and want to please him and at times is sadistic doing things like purposely hurting me-an example-over the weekend we see a young woman coming...