Collaborate without boundaries

First Day

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With the decision to change me and my husbands ways...I decided to do this. My husband doesn't know I am doing this. I hope this will work, we have been married for not even 2 years now, and we are already thinking about divorce. We are drifting away from each other, everyday, more and more. So here I am, desperate to save my marriage! 

  • Don't worry about changing your husband's ways for some time.  Look at this as a journey between you and Christ, not you and him.  He will be used as a tool to mold you.  do a dare a day, no more, no less.  Do not change the way to do the dares to make it easier.  Do not read ahead in the book other than the appendix, especially about  leading the heart.  Have no expectations of him when you do the dares.  in fact, it may get worse before it gets better, but this will serve purpose.


  • I understand. I just started the dares today, hopefully not too late in the game, we've been separated 11 months, 17 days, but who's counting lol. I am concerned over the fact my husband wants nothing to do with me right now. Last we actually "kind of " talked, he said just give him some space and he will contact me . We had discussed that at the new year we maybe could try things again. I have pushed him so far away by incessant texting in the past that Im afraid to try to contact him at all, when i have, he never reply's back.. I too am desperate to save my marriage, it's worth fighting for. I give it to the Lord about every 5 minutes, so i am hoping thru this book, it will draw me closer and really let the Lord take over. My husband is a Godly man, even owns a copy of the book.. maybe he will see it and want to try for himself .

    Its just hard when you want to be near the man you love and you feel a million miles away. Good luck, keep us updated, as I will yall. God is very good and loves us all. He made marriage, He knows what it takes to save one.

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