Okay, so I saw the movie Fireproof and picked up the book "The Love Dare". I wasn't even in a relationship when I picked up a like for this. Now I am back into a relationship with Tyler, a guy who I grew up with, friends of the family and all of that good stuff. He is in the Navy and we decided to get together while he was in Spain on deployement. He is currently home in our home state visiting but soon to go back to his base in California. We have been struggling and he has been hurt so many times he chooses to trust no one. I find this being really hard and a strain in our relationship. We have been together for 6 months, and I love him to death. Ever since I was a little girl I had the biggest crush on him. He talks about getting married and taking it a step futher. But with him unable to trust me I feel lost in the relationship. SO I am deciding to do the love dare and see where it takes us, I am hoping it leaves us better then we are now. I am not telling him and just going to take it day by day. Wish me luck, I am so nervous.
What reasons does he have not to trust you?
And realize this... The journey you are taking is one between you and Christ not you and Tyler.