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  • Took it Better than I Thought

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    I knew that she was consulting an attorney. Her words was that only to do the paperwork. Well I got served the Divorce paper Saturday morning. She promised to let me know before I got served that it would happen. She didn't. She promised to let me...
  • Still Dreaming about a Flood

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    So I had a dream last night. It was raining very hard and I was going to a hotel but the waters were rising and making it difficult to get there. when I got there my room was on the third floor and it was safe and there were friends and people that cared...
  • Is it Time to Give Up?

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    My Wedding anniversary is next week. I want to express my love, but we are not a couple anymore. She has been dating and making a relationship with the other guy for months now. We are only married by law and that the fact that I sticking with my covenant...
  • Fighting a battle within myself.

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    I know I haven't posted in a while. Still fighting being sick and the stress has taken my body. I have to limit my food or I get acid reflux, nausea, migraines and other issues. I went to Divorce Care on Sunday. Then came back and went to sleep the...
  • Trapped in Limbo

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    I am in Limbo right now, not caring about my relationship, not caring about pretty much anything. I wake up and go to work and go to bed. I am finding myself making excuses not to go to church or Celebrate Recovery, falling behind at work, etc. I know...
  • Traffic Court Arrainment

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    Well today I have to got o traffic court for that last car accident. My wife is supposed to drop off her house key to me today at my work. I had to text her the other day to ask for the key, and she hasn't been paying the Jewelry credit card so I...
  • Blindsided by Facebook

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    I thought I've removed any chance of seeing what was going on in my wife's life. But I logged on and there was a post by my brother in law. He was talking about spending time with his sisters. And right there in the photo was my wife, her sister...
  • Developing a Vibrant Faith

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    My wife had went to see her father a week or so ago. She got a new tattoo and I asked about it and she sent me a photo. Yesterday she texted saying She no longer wanted to share our Netflix account. Since the one we shared, emails were addressed to her...
  • Weird Place.

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    I am I a weird place now. I have told God that I give it all to him. God has had me do things and then tell me to stop them. I think he wants me to be obedient and listen. I feel neither sad nor worried, nor hopeful or expectant. I just am. I've given...
  • So Conflicted.

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    I'm so conflicted. I feel like a weak man letting her walk all over me. It doesn't make me attractive to her. Once a woman no longer finds a man attractive she can move on and not care about him. But there are signs she still cares, or is she...
  • So Your Christian Wife Cheated on You

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    There are not a lot of articles or advice for men whom their wive's have cheated. And even less from a Christian perspective. So I read an overview of this article, and thought I'd link the whole thing so that someone could read it. Part 1 Part...
  • A Cheater's Rewrite.

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    I've learned some more in the past few days. I've been beating myself up and trying to accept blame for everything while my wife justifies her cheating and the divorce by following a common pattern of history rewrite. So I thought I'd share...
  • What I want? No, What He wants.

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    So my wife texted me yesterday afternoon, saying she will do it the way I want. And we will only communicate via text or email. I sent her an email, that I wanted to be really mean but editied a lot out. I think you misunderstand. God has had a theme...
  • No Longer Dreaming - Struggling

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    So I met with her last night and she wants to do a simplified divorce. Both of us would be petitioners. If I do this, I feel I'm going against the Will of God. I'm struggling so hard with giving in to her. She said if I choose the Uncontested...
  • Still Dreaming - Sent the Email

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    She and I texted about making arrangements, I was advised by others I should meet in person. So planning on meeting tomorrow after work. So I sent an edited version of that email I posted some time ago. Will update if I hear anything back. So I understand...
  • Still Dreaming - Not Unexpected

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    So I've mentioned before that I hear God speak to me, and He tells me that she will file. So it isn't unexpected to receive this text message. From my wife today, "I need to know how you would prefer to answer questions regarding the divorce...
  • Still Dreaming - Is God Preparing Me?

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    So I got a text from the wife last post and ti was about her swinging by the condo. I was busy at work and didn't really think much of it. She said she would be able to do so in the morning but wouldn't be able to bring the dog food. Well if she...
  • Still Dreaming and Challenging My Doubt

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    Just a Quick Update. This weekend still fighting being sick. Had to work Saturday. After work made it late Saturday service. Went home, relaxed. Slept a lot. Watched Football. Slept More. God has been good. I have been given additional gift money so I...
  • Still Dreaming - God Hears My Prayers

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    This is actually quite weird. So I spent some time writing that letter and my wife texts me out of the blue. She paid the Netflix account that we both still use. I got a new debit card and forgot to switch it, so she put it on her card. She asked about...
  • Need Opinions on this letter

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    Okay so I have been wanting to write letter to her. I never sent that last one I posted, thanks for all the helpful comments. My wife's heart is hardened, so the advise is not to try and sway her but to show her that I connect with her emotionally...
  • Still Dreaming in the Desert

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    I feel Empty, Dry Like I'm in the Desert of Spirit So I missed first Wednesday. I went to the psycologist and had another medicine prescribed for me. When I went to pick up my prescription they only had the new one but would fill the old one. My insuranc...
  • Still Dreaming with Internal Power

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    This was a filled weekend. I worked a bit of overtime. Went to Saturday Service, finished up some laundry and packed. The dog and I made the Road trip to my sister in law's and her husbands house. He's my old college buddy. Hung out and watched...
  • Still Dreaming with The Power of Prayer

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    Still Dreaming with The Power of Prayer I recently listened to this through an app on my phone. How to Bring God's Power into your impossible situation. http://livingontheedge.org/series/the-power-of-prayer/daily-radio http://listenonlinedaily.livingontheedge...
  • Still Dreaming and A Prayer for the Lost and the Prodigal

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    I had a text conversation with the wife last night. I received an email from Geico stating my next payment was due. I only called for a quote. So I called Geico and they reactivated my account. So I called Progressive to remove my car from the policy...
  • Still Dreaming and Finding Joy

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    Still Dreaming and Finding Joy It has been 10 days since I last spoke with my wife, 8 days since the last text. I have received some notifications from Facebook. The mother of the couple went used to hang out with and spent last Thanksgiving at her home...
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