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    I feel like every time I post something on here someone has something negative to say. There is always something that I am doing "wrong." I started using this site as a way to vent and log my dares to show progress and prospective in my growing...
  • love dare day 18

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    This weekend was pretty good. I am starting to worry about Chris and his "acclimation" again. I switched our phone bills and have asked him 3 times to cancel and switch his (I cant do it bc its his account). He wants to but just is not doing...
  • Nooooooooo 17

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    I wrote alot and it deleted. Dangit. Oh well I got out some good thoughts. We did this dare last weekend and are getting really good about it. When I was telling him about why I didnt want to see the councilor anymore (I just feel like she isnt really...
  • 16

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    1. A growing relationship with God 2. For him to pray for God's plan in his life 3. For him to have more confidence in his actions. Chris blew Valentine's day out of the water! He got me a Dr. Who blanket, pikachu keychain, a nice red wine, amazing...
  • Day 15 round 3

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    sooo we were both pretty tired for magik but he wanted to watch the Olympics so I made dinner and we all watched it as a family. It wasnt the us time I wanted but it was the relax time he needed. He told me his church faculties night is being switched...
  • love dare day 13

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    Challenged by day 12! Chris asked me to come to his counciling session yesterday. I was talking about the new dvds we are doing and I asked the question again, "Who do you think is supposed to be the most important person in your life." The...
  • Day 12 round 3

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    If I was asked to do this dare last year or the year before, and I did, I would have cringed. Now I am thinking of an argument or disagreement and I just cant think of one.... When one does come up I will choose love and not argue. I will go his way.
  • day 11 round 3

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    This is something that came up in the his needs her needs series. Your spouse is supposed to be the number one person you love. Chris argument was you should love yourself first to love others. This kind of sums that up.. you are me because we are one...
  • Day 10

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    We had a pretty good weekend. Our neighbor was sick with the flu so we volunteered to watch his daughter for him. The girls fought ALLLLL day. Chris was very patient and wonderful with them! I was so impressed (I was about to send them to boarding school...
  • love dare day 8 and 9

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    Wow.. I tanked. Yesterday was a long day. We got new milling machines at work and its 100 times more work.. good to get the hours so I am grateful but also exhausted! Naturally this time of the month I am not in a good mood so I kept my mouth shut at...
  • Day 7 round 3

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    I know what is coming after these dares so this time I will write them on paper. I think last time I typed them. We are going to church tonight for worship night. I am excited for this because Lily gets to go with us too. I was reading the purpose drive...
  • day 6

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    Today was hard. I had a bad day at work. I was rude to Chris bc I was tired. On the way to softball I told him I was sorry for being cross. He said it was ok and from then on the night was better. I felt a weight lifted when I apologized and he accepted...
  • day 4 round 3

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    I realized this dare scares me! There is no rational reason... I really need to step it up this third time. I am kind of a sarcastic, sometimes negative person and I want to change that this year. I am really friendly at work and church and in the process...
  • Day 2 and 3

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    Acts of kindness:Day 2... I went to the store to get my meds (im sick) and picked up Lily's favorite snacks and a good "meat" dinner for Chris. I came home and started cooking right away. I got Lily home and she helped me cook. I also asked...
  • Day 1 round 3

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    Do not say anything negative. I had some negative thoughts yesterday that I had to push out. Chris wants to serve on a serve team that fixes stuff at the church. It really made me drop my jaw as its like pulling teeth to get him to help me fix things...
  • woohoo 40 round 2

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    This weekend was pretty good. I got the ancestory.com saliva kit for Chris and I could tell he really really liked it. Our daughter was with her grandparents this weekend so we got to spend alot of alone time. We watched movies in bed all day sat bc it...
  • love dare day 39 round 2

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    I wrote a letter to Chris today and ended up emailing it. Something along the lines of I will be here forever and wont give up. I also thanked him for going to counseling with me. I have been with people in the past the cheated on me or just gave up when...
  • Day 38 Round 2

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    So I was going to wait until Valentine's day but I know Chris really wants the Ancestory.com saliva test. He really doesnt know a lot about where he is from. He bought it for me for mothers day last year and it was really neat. I told him to buy one...
  • Day 37 Round 2

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    Pray together. I have just started regularly praying again. Morning, afternoon and night. I dont think my husband prays but I just got him in the door of the church so, baby steps. He wants to go and is going with me in a few minutes on our lunch break...
  • Love dare day 36

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    Read your Bible! I have been doing the love dare. reading love languages going to church 3 days a week and now doing a 21 day fast where I check in with our pastor live every day at noon... but not reading my bible. I need some guidance at where to start...
  • Love dares 34 and 35 round 2

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    We had a blow up Thursday night. I was crying for about 20 minutes. I just didnt know what to do anymore. New years eve weekend was horrible and we just didnt talk about it. Finally he said lets check in and had nothing to say. I reluctantly brought it...
  • Love dare day 33 Round 2

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    This one was def God. Yesterday Chris had the day off to watch Lily (she doesnt go to school until thursday from Christmas break). We met for lunch and I asked him about her after school for tomorrow. He picks her up from afterschool and it is merging...
  • Love dare day 32

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    The past couple of weeks has been a whirl wind. Our ski-trip was awesome. We explored, made new friends, laughed and just had a good time. No arguing what so ever. Almost the moment we picked up Lily from the airport I could feel his mood change. Back...
  • Day 31 Round 2

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    I am in such a bad way. Ill give it time but I had to put my daughter on the plane by herself to Cali last night :( I cried all the way home. She was tough as nails and so excited to see her dad and family so I was glad for that. Chris was being kinda...
  • day 29 and 30 round 2 deleted

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    Bah deleted a dare again.I ordered his pizza that he likes and told him I love him. I thanked God for bringing him into my life and said it again. The note I wanted documented was that my sister and her bf were fighting AT CHURCH! Chris and my mom were...
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