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  • woohoo 40 round 2

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    This weekend was pretty good. I got the ancestory.com saliva kit for Chris and I could tell he really really liked it. Our daughter was with her grandparents this weekend so we got to spend alot of alone time. We watched movies in bed all day sat bc it...
  • love dare day 39 round 2

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    I wrote a letter to Chris today and ended up emailing it. Something along the lines of I will be here forever and wont give up. I also thanked him for going to counseling with me. I have been with people in the past the cheated on me or just gave up when...
  • Day 38 Round 2

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    So I was going to wait until Valentine's day but I know Chris really wants the Ancestory.com saliva test. He really doesnt know a lot about where he is from. He bought it for me for mothers day last year and it was really neat. I told him to buy one...
  • Day 37 Round 2

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    Pray together. I have just started regularly praying again. Morning, afternoon and night. I dont think my husband prays but I just got him in the door of the church so, baby steps. He wants to go and is going with me in a few minutes on our lunch break...
  • Love dare day 36

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    Read your Bible! I have been doing the love dare. reading love languages going to church 3 days a week and now doing a 21 day fast where I check in with our pastor live every day at noon... but not reading my bible. I need some guidance at where to start...
  • Love dares 34 and 35 round 2

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    We had a blow up Thursday night. I was crying for about 20 minutes. I just didnt know what to do anymore. New years eve weekend was horrible and we just didnt talk about it. Finally he said lets check in and had nothing to say. I reluctantly brought it...
  • Love dare day 33 Round 2

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    This one was def God. Yesterday Chris had the day off to watch Lily (she doesnt go to school until thursday from Christmas break). We met for lunch and I asked him about her after school for tomorrow. He picks her up from afterschool and it is merging...
  • Love dare day 32

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    The past couple of weeks has been a whirl wind. Our ski-trip was awesome. We explored, made new friends, laughed and just had a good time. No arguing what so ever. Almost the moment we picked up Lily from the airport I could feel his mood change. Back...
  • Day 31 Round 2

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    I am in such a bad way. Ill give it time but I had to put my daughter on the plane by herself to Cali last night :( I cried all the way home. She was tough as nails and so excited to see her dad and family so I was glad for that. Chris was being kinda...
  • day 29 and 30 round 2 deleted

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    Bah deleted a dare again.I ordered his pizza that he likes and told him I love him. I thanked God for bringing him into my life and said it again. The note I wanted documented was that my sister and her bf were fighting AT CHURCH! Chris and my mom were...
  • day 28 Round 2

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    The dare today is to sacrifice for your spouse time, in order to complete a task that may have been burdening them. I have on my agenda today to finish the table staining. I dont want it to be staring him in the face anymore and give him anxiety. Some...
  • Love dare day 27 round 2

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    This is one of the hardest dares for me and what I have been adamantly working at correcting. I actually said sorry for my shortness last night. Chris forgot about our counceling session yesterday. He still came but he was late. I let it go bc he was...
  • Day 26 round 2

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    In my journal yesterday I actually deleted my thoughts on asking for forgiveness from my spouse. About how hard it is to quit being stubborn bc I am expecting him to show me the same in return. I know that I cannot expect that. I told him last night that...
  • Booo 25 round 2

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    I just wrote a huge thing about forgiveness and it deleted. :( Oh well I need to ask for it and give it. I need to forgive the past and learn how to apply that to my future. Chris watches stuff hes not supposed to and no matter how many fights, tears...
  • Love not Lust Round 2

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    I lust over what I think my husband should do or be doing to better his life and our families. I really need to figure out how to let this go because God knows there if nothing I can do to change his mind set besides pray and lead by example. There are...
  • Day 23 Round 2

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    SO to recap on yesterdays dare.... I wrote before counceling. It was a battlefield! I got yelled at for 30 minutes about finances and how we dont save. How could I add another bill!? I was so mad I almost got up and left. I took a deep breath and listened...
  • Love dare day 22 Round 2

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    SO lately we are bringing up the subject of money management. Last night after my Orange theory class I came home feeling on top of the world. I wanted to tell him I want to go full time instead of 2 days a week. Maybe 4 times a week. He got upset and...
  • Love dare day 21 Round 2

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    Reading the bible. I have begun to read things that take passages and relate to the bible but not the actual bible. I have added mine to my Passenger seat. Its like God really is sitting next to me. Asking for guidance and praying everyday I am seeing...
  • Love dare day 20 round 2

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    These dares are really speaking to me now. The first time I did the love dare I did not have a good relationship with God. I didnt really know how to. Going to church every week, doing the love dare and reading the purpose driven life has made my heart...
  • Good days and bad day 17 round 2

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    Good understanding produces favor. we tend to revile those things that we do not understand. Hear them, do not tell them what you think. draw out the deep water that wells within ^^ Highlights This morning tensions were very high. Lately we have been...
  • Pray for your spouse day 16 round2

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    Today I am to start praying for my spouse. I have been praying for years that he would find a relationship with God again. We are going to church, his idea, and I add it to prayer request and speak with someone about it every Sunday. I need to make this...
  • day 15 round two... tired

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    "Keep the marriage bed sacred!" I wish more men understood this includes videos and pictures :*( I am struggling really really hard with this. He told me he wouldnt do it anymore bc it hurts me and I think of it as cheating and tainitng our"marriage...
  • Day 12, 13, 14 round 2 weekend challenge-edit

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    Willingly choose to give in to an area of disagreement. Things like housework, and projects have been a great area of stress. He said he was going to work on our table this weekend but I know there is not too much extra time to do it. I am going to abstain...
  • Day 11 round 2

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    So my gesture was getting the groceries, cooking a nice meal, chilling his beer cup and giving him a back massage. Day 11 is a also a gesture but the passage was about cherishing your mate as you do yourself. In counseling we have been talking about self...
  • Day 8 and 9 Round 2

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    day 8: I made sure sat to compliment him on every good play that he made during the softball game. We went to dinner for veterans day, I thanked him for his service. We watched football and he got an expensive dinner. I publicly complimented him to our...
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