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  • Day 40 and Done

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    Day-40 About 8 years ago on our anniversary I told Karen I was going to saddle the horses and go for a ride with her that morning . I asked if she would dress up in a more formal attire to help celebrate the occasion. When I had the horses ready she came...
  • Day 38-39

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    Day 38- fulfilling her dreams , My wife really dislikes her boss and some of the people she works with. She has been at her job for 12+ years. I listen and talk to her 4-5 nights a week when she gets home on how her day went and just let her vent .I used...
  • Day 36-37

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    Day 36- Commit to reading the bible every day . I have an app on my phone that sends me a verse with commentary every day . I have been getting this for a few years now. I also try to read my bible every night before bedtime. I try to only read 5-10 pages...
  • Eddie and Tim

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    Thanks Eddie , you are making me tear up as well after reading your comments. Know that I pray for you and Tim in my daily prayers also . I don’t know how I would ever have gotten this far with the dares and done them correctly without your and...
  • Day 33-34-35

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    Day 33 – I always ask my wife about advice for big decisions as this dare suggest. The most recent one and still ongoing is the salary increase I am still negotiating at work after my boss left the company and I was moved up into his position. It...
  • Day 30-31-32

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    Day 30- Find an area of division… I have thought about this and the one thing that comes to mind is the venom. I prayed today that I think about my words and answers before I speak, and not to speak with anger or to hurt, or with the intent to...
  • Sometimes I write to clear my head

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    it's been since September since you told me you're thru, you won't hold my hand, you won't kiss my lips, there's no love for me in you . We sleep in our bed where love used to be made, but there's no love in your heart, no lips...
  • I'm not ready yet

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    I think our wives have the same rule book Eddie ! Your exactly right on forgetting to tell them 1 thing out of 10 and it’s game over for us ! I always apologize and tell her I’m sorry for forgetting something and it wasn’t intentional...
  • Gas pedal...... Brake

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    Well last night the wife I’m used to came back.. All it took was one phone call and the venom returned! I almost have to laugh about it now because I knew 2 good days in a row was a lot to ask. My oldest daughter posted a picture of a rescue horse...
  • Valentines day

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    Valentines day is here ! I never used to get to excited over this “ Hallmark” holiday , but this year is different. I seem to have a lot more love in my heart after doing the dares and improving my relationship with God !!! I took the advice...
  • Day 26-27-28-29

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    Day 26 – I do ask for God’s forgiveness almost on a daily basis for things I’ve done in the past , present and future. I try my hardest to not repeat any of the things I’ve done in the past. I have also said sorry and apologized...
  • Valentines / Birthday

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    I also have valentines day and her birthday coming up . Do I stay with the same plans/ gifts I usually do for these days ? Thanks !
  • Day 22-23-24

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    Day 23, I tell her a couple times a day that I love her, always have. I usually don’t get an answer back. There has been a few times she has said I love you back but she said it’s because I caught her off guard and it was just a reaction due...
  • Day 19-20-21

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    Day 19 has me looking at past dares, were they hard, some yes and some no. I think the most difficult part is doing the dare and expecting nothing, or worse , more venom. It has also taught me to really focus on God every day and not just Sundays. To...
  • Day 16-17-18

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    Day 16 I spent the day praying for God to take and change her heart . To bring her back to church on Sundays and back to me and to lose her anger at people. I prayed several times during the day for these things and now I await God’s answer and...
  • Day 14-15

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    Day 14 was to neglect my activity and to do her project so I put off watching a movie I had borrowed and did some more painting around the house she wanted done. I did this for several hours until it was bed time. All with a smile and good conversation...
  • Day 11-12-13

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    Day 11 I ran errands for her and some things around the house . Day 12 we disagreed on some painting issuses in the kitchen . She wanted cabinet sides painted and I didn't . I remembered todays dare , so I let her win and told her if that's what...
  • Day8-9-10

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    Well todays update was easier. completed burning the list of negative things about her . Day 9 I greeted her with a smile and a new love in my heart . I usually leave her a short one or two sentence Love note next to the tea I make her before I'm...
  • Day 1 thru 7

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    After coming home from a afternoon outing I tried to be romantic and kiss and caress her , she says she doesn't feel that way about me anymore ... Devastated and heartbroken I packed a few clothes and left the house . I ended up back at my work and...
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