so I read day 31, and we have been married for 15 years.  I dont really have family left, but I am passionate about my activies.  I particpate in events like Triathlons and love my toys.  I love my bikes, and purchased two of them last year.  i thought about selling one of my bikes and not racing so much (altough this keeps me sane and healthy).  i had mentioned months ago selling my bike and she said i would only resent her, but honestly my thirst to race is just not there anymore.  I plan on running more and not racing, so would me parting with one of my bikes be applicalbe?  This to me has been about one of the only chapters that I dont know if it applies to me as we have been married far too long.