Collaborate without boundaries

Trying to Stay Faithful and Patient

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I am on Day 16 of the Love Dare challenge. My husband handed me financial forms for me to fill out for divorce. I have told him I don't want the divorce. He told me the Clerk of Courts told him to give me a copy. He handed them to me and he drove away with his best friend. I stood there in shock. I had just handed him a gift. The next day I felt led along with a 3 friends confirming I need to share my heart with him. I drove to the house and prayed on the way. I was able to walk in the house. Found him sleeping on couch. Woke him up. I said I needed to share something with him. I knelt down and apoligized   for leaving the marriage and for getting an apt. I then asked for forgiveness and poured out my heart. He responded in anger yet I felt total peace. I have taken a few steps back and am in prayer.

  • Welcome.  Realize this will be a journey, between you and Christ, not you and your husband.  He will be used as a tool to mold you.  do a dare a day, no more no less.  Do the dares as intended, without manipulating them.  Do not have any expectations of him responding to the dares. Do not read ahead in the book other than the appendix, especially about leading the heart.  

    Post often for accountability.  

  • Thank you Tim. It took me awhile to figure out how to post. Thank your very much for the encouragement. I truly appreciate it.

  • In my experience when ever I have been intimate either physical or emotionally, that I will get a response to what you experienced...  I is so new to them and is scary because they feel it deep inside them, the connection, but are trying hard to ignore it and turn away.  

    Stand strong!

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