Collaborate without boundaries

Love Encourages - R2D27

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Since we are having no contact, I can’t think of any area where I’m expecting too much. During the first round, I also couldn’t think of any time he had told me that I was expecting too much. But I did think of a few, and let him know. Since I don’t have anything new that has come to mind, or anything that I continued to have unrealistic expectations about, I’m going to consider this dare done. I’ve asked God to reveal anything that I may be blind to, but have still come up with nothing.


Unfortunately, since my husband did not deposit his last check, I may have to seek legal help. I do at least need to speak to someone to find out if he is in contempt of court for withholding his income. I’ve done a bit of research, and from what I can find, income is considered community property where I live. If that’s the case, that he is filing the preliminary injunction that went into effect when he filed. I am assuming that he thinks it’s ok for him to do, and he is probably trying to protect himself. I hope that if I let him know that what he’s doing is illegal, that he will change what he is doing. I am really praying that I don’t have to take legal action against him.


We also have our mandatory counseling next week. I am praying that we receive a counselor who is open to God’s wisdom and discernment. I pray that our counselor see’s that our marriage may be broken, but it is fixable, and I am willing to go through the hard times now for things to get better later.


  • I hope and pray for the best. For God's will to be done. It's good that you asked God for wisdom. Even if He revealed nothing know he is working on your husband too. He works good in everything.

    Your husband does have a financial responsibility to pay his bills. He must understand that. No matter what his state of mind is. It's completely understandable to seek legal help to facilitate paying the finances.

    Good luck with the counseling and remember to show love in everything. Don't get angry or upset. God will take care of you.

    "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be known to God; and the peace of God which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Jesus Christ."

    Philippians 4:6-7

  • May God work through the mandatory counseling appointment.  As Eddie said, do everything in patience and kindness.  To  show God's love.

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