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  • Expectations

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    Sorry I've been quiet the last couple of days. God has been doing big things in my life. I've been able to let go of strongholds and areas of weakness. He has really healed me from the past. But now I'm having to fully crucify my flesh. And...
  • Love Forgives

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    Its been amazing how the dares have lined up with what is going on in my life. Today I realized I have so much that I needed to forgive him for. First and foremost not choosing me. Not choosing to work this out and leaving instead. Not choosing to love...
  • Failures

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    I failed so badly last night. I just hope that I get another chance. I went to church. It was fine. The sermon was good. But as you saw in my last two journal posts I struggled so badly with anxiety and fear and shame. I had been praying and standing...
  • So much anxiety

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    So much anxiety today. Yesterday's love dare went good. We talked on the phone because he had plans with friends. When I told him I would love him no matter what he did (day 22) he said thank you. No declaration of love like the day before. But its...
  • The Hardest Night

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    Last night was really hard and yet such a blessing. I feel raw today. Yesterday's love dare was about not putting expectations on our spouses but to put them on God and let Him meet all of my needs. I had such a hard day yesterday at work, I actually...
  • Love is Impossible

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    I loved doing this dare. Throughout the past 19 days I have seen God do amazing things in my life. I have realized I can't do it on my own and it is only by the grace of God I am where I am today. I have been keeping a journal and also reading a couple...
  • The most Amazing Evening

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    I had the most amazing evening doing this dare and I learned so much. I asked to make Isaac dinner and for the first time since I started the dares he was happy to do something with me. I went over there and took him his favorite bottle of wine he hasn't...
  • Struggling

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    I really struggled with my dare today. I know that I am not supposed to focus on the responses to my dares. But yesterday we had plans outside of the dare to get dinner. I was so excited. This was going to be the first time in a while that he would choose...
  • Love Intercedes

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    Today I got a chance to intercede for my significant other in ways that I hadn't ever thought of before. I have always tried to pray for him. Pray blessings over him. And I realized I could actually pray for him to love me again. For him to desire...
  • Love Takes Delight

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    Yesterday was a good day. I texted him about my Love Dare and that I would be delighted to spend time with him in whatever he was doing. He texted back thanks for the offer and that he just needed some alone time. It's getting easier for me to respond...
  • Day 13

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    I haven't posted in a few days so I will try to catch up. We had previously come up with a list of rules for fighting that we thought was a good start. We also added that because both of us do not think clearly when tired that we should both be able...
  • Ups and downs

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    Today was hard. Yesterday we had a lot of positives. I gave him a great massage and he hugged and kissed me when I left. Lots of positive interactions. But today I tried to do the dare and I got zero response. He still has time. And he could be still...
  • Day 10&11

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    Yesterday I had to do something unexpected. I completely overanalyzed it all day. I finally left it in God's hands as to what I should do it and it worked out better than I could have imagined. I had to go out to his house yesterday to grab a couple...
  • Completely convicted of jealousy

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    This morning the Love Dare completely convicted me and I realized how jealous I have been of my partner and I realize how I have been pushing him away. In the beginning of our relationship I was so supportive and loving of him and everything he did. One...
  • So hard not to be selfish about this

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    I made my lists this morning.... Now I'm waiting to text him later thanking him for the characteristic... I am overthinking everything in my head as to what I should say.... And I keep wanting to make it in reference to me. Like I love the way you...
  • Just Found this Community

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    I just found this community and am so glad. I am really struggling but I believe that this is the journey that God set out before me. My friends believe I should just walk away, that he is being really hurtful and rude to me. And I'm trying to explain...
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