Collaborate without boundaries
  • Hope

    • 5 Comments
    Well I am on dare 32 and while I would love to make this happen, we are just not there. With the way things are going I'm not sure we will ever be able to get there. She is filing this week. She is completely separating herself from me. The latest...
  • Hope vs Reality

    • 4 Comments
    I am holding onto hope but I begin to question if I'm not see the reality in my situation. I wonder if holding onto that hope is the right approach or if I'm turning a blind eye to was my actual reality is. I get happy running through things in...
  • Past Users

    • 6 Comments
    Does anyone keep in touch with any of the past heavy users of the site? People like Sean. I was just wondering how everything ended up for him and others and what advice they have now looking back after they completed the dares. Like to hear success stories...
  • Hard Times

    • 4 Comments
    Rough weekend. Wife slept in a parking lot till 4am for one night cause she didn't want to come home and be around me even though I did nothing wrong during the day. She lied to me about where she was initially saying she was at a friends house and...
  • Day 20 - Halfway

    • 8 Comments
    Wow was that a quick 20 days. Halfway through the love dare and this is when it gets hard. I have been watching the move the last couple of nights and continue to be amazed at how closely it mirrors my situation. I am trying with everything I have to...
  • When you say nothing at all

    • 6 Comments
    Yesterday was a very hard day for me. I was extremely down and depressed for what happened the previous night and how I reacted to the dare. I thought about that all day long and regretted everything I said and did. I wish I had the patience and kindness...
  • What does surrendering to God mean?

    • 9 Comments
    What does surrendering to God and Jesus mean? What does it feel like? How do I know what to do? How do I know what to say, think, feel, act, do, be, etc, etc etc I am struggling with this today. I know I need to just don't know how to.
  • Dare 18 I totally messed up

    • 9 Comments
    Well I got my brother to come down from an hour away to take care of the kids for the night. I made a nice meal, got some wine, table clothe, fancy plates, etc. Had it all ready. She walked in and said what are you doing? Why are you doing this? Then...
  • Starting on divorce process in 2 weeks

    • 7 Comments
    Well I had to talk to my lawyer this morning and he informed me that he would recommend one of us leaves the house as we start on the divorce process in two weeks. That hit me hard. I've been struggling with my faith and trying to understand why God...
  • Confronting male talking to my wife

    • 7 Comments
    My wife has been talking with this male on twitter for the last six months. She says they are just friends but I don’t believe it. The amount of txts, tweets and emails isn’t at a friend level in my opinion. I sent him a message asking him...
  • Honor

    • 5 Comments
    Well today is my wife's birthday so I got up early and got her a bagel and Starbucks. She said thanks for the coffee but didn't want the bagel. Ok, not a problem. I took the day off and she has the day off so she asked me if I was going to be...
  • Don't know what to do

    • 12 Comments
    I'm not exactly sure what to do for today's dare. I'm on day 14 love takes delight. My wife has a work dinner tonight and I'm not sure how much time we will have together. If I don't get a chance to do something, do I do it tomorrow...
  • Need some advice

    • 9 Comments
    I need some advice from the Love Dare Community, I am torn on what to do. My wife and I have been sleeping in separate beds for the last two months. I started out by sleeping downstairs while she slept in our bed. Being downstairs was horrible. You feel...
  • Many ups and downs

    • 8 Comments
    This weekend was full of ups and downs. That's been my story the last four months. I can tell you now it has been made easier to get through those downs knowing that God is with me. I turned my back to him about 20 years ago. I turned into a man I...
  • Believe the best

    • 6 Comments
    What a great day. It's amazing when you believe the best of people and most importantly in God how amazing your day can become and the anxiety vanishes. I have had severe anxiety issues for about 20 years of my life. When I started on the love dare...
  • Irritable comes too easy

    • 1 Comments
    Day 6 was good for the most part. I found myself getting irritable with both my kids and my wife. I was watching all 3 of my kids last night and they all wanted daddy to do something with them while wife was at a meeting. Found myself starting to get...
  • Going through divorce process

    • 6 Comments
    Does anyone have any advice to stories to share about going through the divorce process and still trying to make your marriage work and doing the love dare? We are starting the process very soon and I'm focused on the dares but often wonder if there...
  • Day 6

    • 2 Comments
    Well Day 5 didn't go so well. I tried asking for feedback but got "I'm not playing any games and I'm wasting my energy". I keep telling myself not to give up and keep my faith. I keep asking God for a sign if I should give up and...
  • Day 5

    • 5 Comments
    I'm on Day 5. Any advice on what is the best way to ask for the 3 things that irritate my spouse. I have been working on myself for a while now and have shown improvement just not in her eyes. My counselor said she has blinders on and probably won't...
Page 1 of 1 (19 items)