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  • Days gone ny

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    So the past few days have been strange. My husband has decided to stay.I am elated but very unsure of anything. He acts like his old self but something is different. I still don't know what guy I get each evening because this is new. Maybe he is trying...
  • Day 38

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    On this dare I think and it comes to me, he wants a motorcycle. He has had 2 before but it didn't fit in our family at the time. Eventually it will not be an issue for that so I will prepare for that. He has given me an ultimatum that doesn't...
  • Day 37

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    Prayer...it is easier for me when I pray for others but this dare asked me for something different. It asked about my concerns. This is something I rarely do for me but love trying to fix for others. I even had to read this dare a few times all day just...
  • Day 36

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    I should have written this last night but I almost went to the hospital. I am so sick it's crazy to just try and breath. My spouse is helping me to feel better which is odd but I will take it. Of course he had to speak cryptic yesterday evening and...
  • Dayc35

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    I chose a couple and spoke to them. They are very encouraging about some things and very real on others. I know God has them in my life for a reason. On a different note my spouse made love to me but said he felt nothing. He even stated I told you I was...
  • Day 34

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    Today my spouse was very kind for no reason so I told him as much. He met it with that is what I am suppose to do and looked at me very mean and walked off. Well of course he had to prove it was a fluke and be ugly the rest of the night. I just breathed...
  • Day 33

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    This dare was one of the easier ones. My spouse and I have always spoken of our future to each other. We did talk about our future and he still sees me far away but I told him how much I value his opinion. He told me he knows and passed it off as normal...
  • Day 32

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    Taking on this challenge was exactly that, a challenge. I approached my spouse and was met with silence so I just preceded as if that was a good try. Well in a few minutes he obliged but it was all mechanical. Then he tells me we need an open marriage...
  • Oh what now

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    So I just told husband I put a lot of people in between us and I will not do that again. I know I will fail but I will be vigilant. His response was I don't know what to feel about that when I am telling you I want to leave. But I appreciate you telling...
  • Day 30

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    Wow what a journey so far. I have gone from just not wanting to my husband to leave but to a desire for God to be in his life like mine. God has shown me so much patience with my idiocy that that alone causes me to praise him more. So my spouse and I...
  • Day 29

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    Praying for my spouse by name is easy but what to pray for is the exhausting one. I have so much on my mind that I am almost blinded to what he needs. It does help with conversations but he seems to always catch me unaware. I will work harder on figuring...
  • Day 28

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    I tried to lift a burden from my husband today to be met with anger and was told no I am not needed for that. I was sad but allowed him to drive the long haul. We were having a good time until he was inebriated. He let his true thoughts come out that...
  • Day 27

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    I told my spouse that I expected too much of him and for that I will stop. I did not ask him for anything beyond coming home and doing what he wanted. Even that made him upset. He was angry with me over nothing. In fact I have found out from him that...
  • Day 26

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    Asking for forgiveness was not hard for me but he didn't want to give me and did not. That is okay because God has forgiven me and in the end I need that forgiveness so much more. We did make it to the party and yes he was very distant. I did not...
  • Day 25

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    Wow what a day! I was very down the day before and then the forgiveness day comes about. God knows exactly what I need and when I need it, why am I so stubborn. I read the day and thought this will be difficult for me to forgive not only my husband but...
  • Day 24

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    I read the dare and thought why can I think of a thousand things that my husband needs to get rid of but I can't. That was not a long thought as God stopped me in my thoughts and said this is about YOU!!! It was as if I could hear the word you even...
  • Day 23

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    Today was the more difficult days for me to contemplate. I sat for a long while thinking 'what is hindering my relationship?' I behanbto ask God what is it that I need to get in check? It hit like a ton of bricks. I invest so much time in our...
  • Day 21

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    Did I think I would make it this far, no, but here I am. I was reading bible previously to this dare but now I have a new purpose and drive to find a closeness to God that cannot be changed. I love my spouse and want what is spoken about but I cannot...
  • Day 20

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    So I read the dare and a single word jumped out to me...trust. I need to trust God for all my answers not a formula but rely on God for my marriage to honor him. I prayed and a peace came over me. One I wasn't sure about but the day seemed to fly...
  • Day 17

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    The time I got to speak with my spouse was late in the day as he had work and practice at church. That practice did not turn out as well as I had hoped so I waited until he was calmed down. I listened and thought about what he was really saying and asked...
  • Day 16

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    I read the dare and thought oh boy I can do this easy enough. Well I was wrong on so many levels for this day. I started to think about what I wanted to pray for and a thousand things came to mind but none of them were things were really his problem but...
  • Day 15

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    Today we went to church and he helped me with bulletins. I was again shocked but accepted his help. After church I set up an opportunity for us to go to a conceal carry course. Mind you I am not particularly good at shooting. He was happy there but at...
  • Day 14

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    Today we raked leaves and cleaned the yard. He had a great time and I enjoyed watching and helping. That night we saw a movie and walked around downtown. I enjoyed the time but he did not. How I know this is he said to me " you would think it was...
  • Day 13

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    Today we tried to set some boundaries for arguments. It went well however, my husband asked how we could keep this up for 3 more years. I did not answer but thought lots of prayer. So now I ask any who will pray for our marriage to have a change course...
  • Day 11 turned into Day 11 and 12

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    Yesterday I was to run an errand, that did not turn out at all. I knew everything had been done for him here at the house. However, I asked him if he had errands that needed running. He did not answer so I sad to myself that is okay God give me a happy...
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