Collaborate without boundaries

Day 32

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Taking on this challenge was exactly that, a challenge. I approached my spouse and was met with silence so I just preceded as if that was a good try. Well in a few minutes he obliged but it was all mechanical. Then he tells me we need an open marriage so I can last the next 3 years. I was shocked and said what?. Well you rrad it I am not good enough and when I said I know God has bigger plans for you he ignored it. I tried to go on with what I am doing but he refused to listen and walked away. Now I am really thinking he is further on the leaving path, I can't even sleep. 

  • Don't put thought in the mechanical and thank God the dare was completed.  This rarely happens it seems on this  dare.  He had to be mechanical, if not, he would have thought of himself as showing weakness and like he is caving in.

    the same with what he said about not lasting the next 3 years.  He has to show you he hasn't changed his mind.  

  • Love believes the best. That he said that not to follow through with it but to just put distance between you to after sharing intimacy.  What  we fear so often never happens.  

    Seek God's peace, it is right there for you.

  • My wife and I had an open marriage when we thought we were doing good. I'm sure it was part of what brought us to this point. Then as I started reading and studying my Bible I realized that we were so wrong in doing that. God does not like adultery at all and that's what an open marriage is. An open marriage is a path to disaster. I can guarantee that from experience.

    You ARE good enough for each other. But not without Christ.

    "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral."

    Hebrews 13:4

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