Collaborate without boundaries

Oh what now

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So I just told husband I put a lot of people in between us and I will not do that again. I know I will fail but I will be vigilant. His response was I don't know what to feel about that when I am telling you I want to leave. But I appreciate you telling me. I told him I just wanted him to know. What do I do now? How do I continue what should I do????

  • You should pray about it and remain faithful to God. You also have to let your actions do your speaking. One thing my wife has clearly voiced is that I say a lot of things but I don't do them. You have to not put people between you and your husband- under any circumstances. Love him no matter what he says or does.

    There were a couple of success stories on here yesterday. One has been going on for 18 months and the other two years. What we are going through together on here is not going to resolve anytime soon. Our spouses are hurting and we need to be there for them when they fall because as far as I can tell from research and talking to many professionals is that if they continue on their current path they will eventually hit rock bottom and they will need us to lift them up.

    Put Christ in everything you do. I talk to Him like he is sitting in my passenger seat with me on my way to work. He IS everywhere we just need to acknowledge that.

    "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer."

    Romans 12:12

  • Thank you  much for the encouragement. I will pray today fervently, I know Satan will be not on my tail today because of it. I cry a lot when I pray maybe that is good.

  • What to do?  Pray and read.  Be still and know He is God.  Keep God way above your husband to keep in His peace.  Do a date a day no more no less to leave God in control.  Keep showing patience and kindness.

  • As the day progressed I got very sick and my spouse got home early. He spent time helping me and I was shocked that he did anything. I thought I was unsure of what to do and God said love him with kindness. It was amazing to see my spouse who wants to leave take care of me. He says he loves me just not in love with me. Well I can see that God is working on me to show more love in my actions. God is truly amazing.

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