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  • Love believes the best

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    Well yesterday started out ok and then last night went bad again. I have been really focusing on myself and where I want to be on this journey and for the first time in the dares I have felt a lot more peace than I ever have. I have tried to stop always...
  • Day 5 dare complete

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    Well update. Last nite he came home in a extra good mood he was on the phone with his best friend shawn the one who always seems to tell me things I should not know, they were on the phone talking about his bike, because once again his bike is broke and...
  • Day 4

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    Dare completed. I contacted him from work today, I tried to call but it went to voicemail so I left him a message asking how he was doing and if he needed anything. He in on vacation this week and this morning I was going to take our daughter to my mothers...
  • Day 3 love is not selfish

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    Yesterday proved to be an interesting day, after the car wash I went home and then went to work and he showed up at my job with the kids about an hours after i got there to get some "tea" they ended up staying and eating dinner. A lot of people...
  • Day 2...

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    Last night started rough for me, but as the night went on and I settlee down and prayed and realized that spending the time with the kids was so much more important than what he mite be doing I settled down and found peace. The kids and I had a great...
  • Day 1 love is patient....Again

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    So this dareis very appropriate today. The day started alright the usual morning stuff, he told me to drive his car becuase he needed to use the truck to do lawnwork at his mom, then he went and picked up his daughter this afternoon. We spoke once on...
  • Day 40 Love is a covenant 2nd post

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    This morning after I wrote my initial journal entry I went outside to find a gift bag in the front seat, he had bought me pair of sunglasses and a car phone charger system that also works as a blue tooth for phone calls and radio, not the kind of gifts...
  • Day 40 love is a covenant....todays our anniversary

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    Today I woke up without any expectations from my husband. I already know that he does not want to celebrate our anniversary and he has been extra cold this week. Today is a pretty appropriate dare for the day. I will rewrite my vows today as I have done...
  • Day 33 tryin to include him in on future decisions

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    After our conversation last night where he told me he did not want anything from us and our marriage, I have to admit I was shaken and upset about it. I prayed last night and tried not to let it get to me. He ended up coming home and doing his usual thing...
  • Day 32...unable to complete todays dare

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    Today I am unable to complete my dare because hes not home and I doubt he will be home anytime soon. Today was my moms birthday and she wanted to go to hid restaurant to eat, imagine that so I took her. He sat with us while we were there eating and was...
  • Day 31 conquering the leaving issue

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    Well today was not such a good one in my eyes. Me and the kids are all sick with fevers and we stayed home from school and work today. Yesterday my husband picked up his car from being painted and came strait home and started doing more stuff to it. He...
  • Day 28...havent posted in awhile

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    Today is day 28 Love makes sacrifices. I have not been on for awhile, I have really been focusing on my kids and my daily prayers and praise to God. I have started to read during my lunch breaks at work using this time away from everyone at work and in...
  • Day 13 love fights fair Round 6

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    Today I decided to take a different approach to my dare. Instead of asking my huasband about rules of engagement when we argue I decided to just make my list. Usually when I ask him for feedback it usually does not end well. The past few days have been...
  • Day 10 round 6....things ar crazy again

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    Well today is day 10 and last night after I made my second post things got worse. I put our daughter to bed and then went into the bedroom to go to sleep and he literally said to me get out of the room you cant sleep in here if you do when we get the...
  • Day 9 post 2

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    Well the rest of the day did not go very well at all.. We both got home from work around the same time and we were outside playing with our daughter for awhile. she ended up falling down and scraping her hand not bad but it was bleeding and he yells across...
  • Day 9 greeting me spouse with love..

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    Today is day 9....again. I am supposed to find a way to greet my spouse with love, I have been doing this everyday since round one. Last nite he went to a bike party like I thought he was going to when he got so mad about me asking him why he had his...
  • Day 8 my spouses biggest fan..

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    I wish I would have read my dare for the day today before I even let my feet hit the floor. I should know the dares by heart by now but I dont. Last nite of coures my husband did he usual routine, I was off I should have picked up a shift at work but...
  • Day 7 love believes the best...Round 6

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    Today I am making my lists for the 6th time. I doesnt get easier as the times go by, because each time I find that things are changing on the list, both positive and negative. The process of these dares has made me re examine the way I think about my...
  • Day 6 making my list

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    Well I made it thru Valentines day peacefully with my husband. He worked pretty late and when he got home I had dinner in the fridge for him I did not get him anything special I just made him a plate of what the kids and I had. I had his gift ( a superbowl...
  • Day 4 round 6 love is thoughtful

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    Well today is a hard day for me, I'm trying not to have any expectations at all from my husband but 8 years ago on Valentines day we started dating and 5 years ago our daughter was conceived on Valentines day. This past weekend was a little rough...
  • Day 4 love is thoughtful..

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    Well today is a hard day for me, I'm trying not to have any expectations at all from my husband but 8 years ago on Valentines day we started dating and 5 years ago our daughter was conceived on Valentines day. This past weekend was a little rough...
  • Day 1 round 6...not much hope rite now

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    Today I am starting the dare over again, it helps me focus on my journey and gives me something to look forward to everyday. Rite now there is really not much to look forward to anymore. I am in such a frustrated mood today. Our truck is stil getting...
  • Day39 Round 5 love endures...

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    I havent been on here in a few days because I have been so busy working and trying to get money together and praying. Things with my husband are essentially the same, but as we all know with him when things get real bad he starts to slowly soften up a...
  • Love completes each other....

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    The past few days have been ok, he has actually been communicating a little, saying a few words here and there nothing major. Yesterday the truck started to act funny the one we are making payments on and he called me at work to tell me about it and today...
  • Day 30 love brings untiy....round 5...praying

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    Today is day 30 and i am to pray about a area that is bringing divison to me and my husband, this would be almost every area, we live like roommates. We barely communicate at all, not because I dont want to but because he doesnt want to. Thursday he called...
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