She has probably told me that I expec to much but very few times. In my wordly way I tried to be a good husband rarely saying no (but apparently only to the things she felt important) helping out, cooking, cleaning on my own (not enough) and generally making things easier for her. I truthfully spent too much time on things I felt would help instead of focusing on the other things which were probably more important.
I will tell her that I want to seek to understand her and she has my unconditional love.
We as husbands are all guilty of that at one point in time or another,now WE know better.Keep talking to her,she is listening.Keep UNCONDITIONALLY love her.Keep praying to God and ask him for wisdom