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So Hurt

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Finally figured out how to do the journal entry...

 

My husband told me on 8.31 that he wanted out of our 10 year marriage.  We have 2 kids, 5 and 8.  His reasoning was that I never showed him that I loved him or cared about him and that I put people before him. This is not a false statement.  I have been very comfortable in the way that I show affection to him.  I started the Dare then. He has still been at home, but very cold to me.  He won't talk to me and is saying he is leaving.  He says the actions that I am showing now are fake and I am only doing it to save face.  His friend comes home from the beach this weekend and then he is going to go stay with him.  He swore there was no one else, and then I found out yesterday that, that was a lie.  He says that is hasn't gotten to sex, just talking about things they probably shouldn't.  They work together and she is engaged. I am crushed.  He works night shift and I wrote him a letter last night with all of my feelings.  I know he read it because it was in our bathroom this morning.  I don't want him to leave.  And I feel like Day 12 is telling me to let him go.  I have been praying for God to soften his heart and to make me the wife he intended for me to be.  He told him, "Good luck with all that praying".  He has lost his faith and I just don't know what to do. 

  • Glad you found out how to journal.  You may want to write your journals out on a word doc and then paste it on this site.  You can easily get timed out here.  The site I really appreciate, but it's not set up the best.

  • What he says about you being fake is an expected reaction.  Pray for God to but space between him and this other woman.  If she's engaged I can't imagine it ending well for either of them.  He's looking for reasons to justify his actions, don't give him any.  Keep doing the dares and hopefully he will start to believe the changes in you.

    Regardless of the final outcome you will learn how to have a better relationship with Jesus and how to truly love.

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