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So my last week

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So this is my last week. I am on day 36. I am excited to be honest because I am not a very consistent person, I start things and never followed through it anything. I normally just go on with challenges a couple of days and then I forget. So this really means I want to save my marriage. Anyways I haven't have any contact with  him in the last 3 days which I was expecting because we had a good meaning we talked and didn't fight, we even went out again, I helped him a couple of times with things he needed but that was about it. And you will thinking why was I expecting no contact with him? Well because things were great last week but the last time I saw him I was going to drop him off at his place but he make me go a different way then I realize it was because his brother was on his way and he didn't want him to see he with me. Yeah his family don't like me. They never have and they have a big part in the fall out of my marriage. They are constantly encouraging him to get a divorce, especially his mother. They even encourage him not be involved with my son. So yeah we haven't any contact. I cried a lot last week I think Friday but I am okay now. And as the end of the dares come I am not sure if I will redo them. I have plans. I even want to move to another city for work so I don't really know what I am going to do. How long should I wait to move on? If he has already move on and still don't want anything with me? How long should I pUT my life on hold? 

 

 

 

 

  • Do another round.  You need to build your endurance and in Christ.

    How long you ask.......How long does Jesus wait for you?

    Your having decent moments with him.  Thank God for that and don't let your flesh fool you.

  • Round one as you pointed out wasting save your marriage.  Do round two only to grow in Christ.  Because this really is a journey between you and Christ not you and him.

  • I want to do round 2 Tim but I do have some goals that I want to see through like moving to another city. I don't know what to do about it.

  • I may be missing something....You are wanting to restore your marriage but you are also trying to move to another city?

  • Why not show unity and stay in the same city that you are in.  and put on hold the move.  Moving now would not show unity.  And if you reconcile you can show unity in the marriage by seeking his thoughts on moving together.  

    Would moving now be putting your desire to live in a different city above your marriage?   How far away are you considering moving?  

    Prray that his family has Christ's will in their lives.

  • Why not show unity and stay in the same city that you are in.  and put on hold the move.  Moving now would not show unity.  And if you reconcile you can show unity in the marriage by seeking his thoughts on moving together.  

    Would moving now be putting your desire to live in a different city above your marriage?   How far away are you considering moving?  

    Prray that his family has Christ's will in their lives.

  • I live in Florida and I want to move to Atlanta because I will have better opportunities with work there. I want better opportunities for my kids and I am looking to start my business as well. I just don't know what to do because he doesn't want anything with me and he has told me a lot of times we will not be back together and he is moving forward with his life.

  • Your in a covenant.  that is the first commitment.  I understand the desire to move, but we said for better or worse not I get to leave because he said we are done.  

    If the marriage ends, let it all be on him.  Be patent, God has plans for you.  they may include Atlanta, or His plans may be far better than Atlanta.  

  • Thank you Tim. You are right. I will wait

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