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  • Day 28R8 Insights

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    I'm not keeping perfect track of the LDs but the heart of the dares is what I am working at living. Love believes the best. I have chosen Love over condemnation and I will walk in forgiveness seeking opportunity to reconcile with both my wife, daughters...
  • R8...Reflections day 24

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    During this 8 th round in the dares I have come to the conclusion my marriage needed to die. Now don’t take this as if I have given up. The first relationship I had with MH was not built on the love found in the surrender and sacrifice that God...
  • Dare 3 Round 6

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    Today is the 3 rd day of my 6 th round, I have not been able to complete the dares on my wife but through prayer God has given me people to serve in the dares. Selfishness is what put me here in the first place, the desire to fulfil my desire Putting...
  • Update 1...

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    Hey all I want you to know that I have not forgotten you, you are all in my prayers, I have been checking in on you now and then just not commenting. Where to begin….this is my first update and the first glimmer of hope. I was walking around at...
  • What God requires...

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    What God requires of us isn’t the difficult things, what he wants from us is the imposable. Imposable for us that is. But completed in the finished work of Christ Jesus our Lord. The cool thing is that we can walk in that same perfection, walking...
  • Love is Honorable Round 4

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    Letting the dares mold you...it’s funny to think of it that way "letting" but really that is the truth, we don't have to let God mold us, we can fight him, but just as the Israelites did in the wilderness you will die there. We have...
  • Love is not Jealous Round 4

    Hey all, I haven’t posted in a couple of days, I’m still in the dares I’m just not posting every dare, I will be on to comment and encourage regularly and post as the Lord leads. I have been in 1 Peter 2 Vs. 1-12 {So put away all malice...
  • Love is Thoughtful R4

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    Love is Thoughtful…..I’ve been trying to think of how to expound on Thoughtfulness, it is an extension of yesterday’s dare, like patience and kindness, selflessness and thoughtfulness correlate. Patience is silent like selflessness...
  • Love is not Selfish Round 4

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    Love is not selfish because it seeks to fulfill other needs at its own expense. The truth about giving in a relationship is that you can’t give like that without a true understanding of God’s love for us. John 3:16……“For...
  • Kindness Round 4

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    Kindness is Loves action in difficult situations, the example set for us in Christ is very clear. 1 Peter 2:18-20 18 Servants, be subject to your masters with all respect, not only to the good and gentle but also to the unjust. 19 For this is a gracious...
  • Patience Round 4

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    Some notes from a study I am doing on 1Cor. 13. Patience, Love is Patient - Strongs number G5281 is the most used word for patience, it denotes steadfastness, constancy. Endurance/patience in the NT is the characteristic of a man who is not swerved from...
  • Dare 40R3...Love is a Covenant

    I chose My wife out of a bunch of other girls for her grace, the way she treated her siblings, her love and respect for her parents, and for her heart for God. I'm sure there were other girls out there that had the same interests as I did but their...
  • Dare 39R3...Love Endures

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    This dare is hard, I don't write well under stress and wanting to say it all right is stressful. I don't even know if she will take it if she comes to our house. My love for MH has grown through this trial in God's grace through forgiveness...
  • Dare 38R3...Love Fulfills Dreams

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    I am doing my best to make our house a beautiful place to live. I know that is something that she would want, but more importantly I am working on my relationship with Jesus, walking with him and seeking his face. Cleanliness of the life is to be strived...
  • Dare 37R3...Love Agrees in Prayer

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    Praying is our link to God, it is the way we communicate our pain, fear, sadness, and love to God. A breakdown in prayer will divide your heart between your will and Gods will, when this happens we end up telling God what we want him to do to prove his...
  • Dare 36R3...Love is the God's Word

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    The Word of God…Proverbs 2 1 Blessed is the man a who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers; 2 but his delight is in the law b of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and...
  • Dare 35R3...Love is Accountable

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    If you don't have one? Get one. This is one of the most important things in marriage, first you need to be accountable to God never let a day go by without being in his word. Next to your spouse communication, truth, (total nakedness of the mind and...
  • Dare 34R3...Love Celebrates Godliness

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    I am floored by the grace of God. Not that anything happened, He is just so good to me. I have been working on my house, and on Friday started a 16”x16” deck on the front of my house, if I had the money I could finish it tomorrow. As I was...
  • Dare 33R3 Love Completes Each Other

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    I was able to do this dare, I was emailing MH about a cell phone/email issue. Thinking about it, I walked all over MH in decision making and just imposed my will. When you take one the life of another in marriage you are taking on another mind, another...
  • Dare 32R3...Love meets Sexual needs

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    Not till after we're back together. A shift in focus. I was hanging with a new friend from church and as we settled into making some didgeridoos around his fire pit. He said some profound things. He said in response to hearing some of my situation...
  • Dare 31R3...Love and Marriage

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    I did have a problem with leaving when MH and I were first married. Now in this trial I have reconnected with my mom and dad, and had some healing between us and between me and my older sister, but that has not come between me and MH even now. There are...
  • Dare 29,30R3...Love seeks Unity

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    I am asking God to I could make contact with MH but she asked for no contact, I will at every opportunity tell her that I love her. But as Tim stated in his entry I have not had an argument or even an angry look in months. I will continue to pray for...
  • Dare 28R3...Love Makes Sacrifices

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    I know she needs prayer, for support and healing, this I will do with joy. Love is a sacrifice, we chose to love in the face of the ridicule. Again I am reminded of the book "the hiding place" how Corry wanted to exact revenge for the atrocities...
  • Dare 27R3...Love Encourages

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    This has been the single most difficult dare for me, I thank God for showing me that I can have expectations FOR MH FROM Him, and FOR me FROM Him, and I know that those expectations will be fulfilled in Him. It frees me to pray for her in different ways...
  • Dare 26R3...Love is Responsible

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    Being forgiven is such a freeing thing, but even better is knowing that the creator of the universe doesn’t hold your sin against you, to stand in the presence of the King and look into his face because I am clean. As I am looking at my sin and...
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