Collaborate without boundaries

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Well I sent MH a message stating how grateful I am that God allowed me to love her, one of his daughters. It is sad that all my communications are poured through her father's filter, but my God is bigger than he is so I don't have to worry.

Phil. 4:6,7 "do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God shich surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

  • If her dad is seeing all communication, and you stick to the dares, you are being a witness to Christ to him as well as your wife.  This may make things worse for a time not just with your wife, but also him before it gets  better.

    She has  marriage written on her  DNA.  And in marriage she is to leave, not cleave to her dad.  So, the  combination of  knowing to  leave and her DNA will just be a big door open for God to  work in her.  

  • Thanks Tim I forget often that the dares worked in the presence of others shows God's grace to them as well, I will continue to post them as I have once a day. not in there entirety, of course, but as the Lord leads me to.

  • I think i may be reading your reply incorrectly...But are you saying you post your journal entry for her and her dad to see?  

  • It is sad that husband and wife can't work out their problems without interference but as long as you are doing the dares the way they are intended what can your father in law do? Is he greater than God? NO!

    If you can live those Philippians verses and not be anxious about anything then you will be in a great place. I don't even know where I would be today if I didn't have verses like that to at least strive for. I still have a long way to go but I try every day to live up to the New Testament teachings. Keep it up Josh.

  • Josh Tue, May 8 2018 12:24 PM No, I don't post my journal entries for them to read. I think that would be detrimental. I ask a question, make a statement, or say I love you. Sometimes I post an encouraging quote.

    Had a good talk with one of my accountability partners, he is a family friend and goes occasionally the church my wife is attending. He doesn't tell me anything about her but listens to my ranting and what the Lord is teaching me. It is so encouraging to have people to talk to how are unbiased and seeking God.

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