I am a little confused. I love my husband and I am trying to show love unconditionally, but at the same time I don't want to seem like I am condoning what he is doing. I don't mind going and picking him up to come into town, but I hate having to take him back to his girlfriend's house. I don't want him thinking that what he is doing is ok... But I don't want to be down on him either. I know there is a fine line between showing him love and letting him walk on me. He has already started talking more about "we", but it all just leaves me confused... I know that God has a plan and I am trying to be patient. I just also don't want to feel walked on. I need prayer. I just don't know if it is ok for me to go and pick my husband up from his girlfriend's house when I know that he is just going to go back there... Everytime we are together, we do get to talk. I know that he is in a struggle also of what he know is right and what he is doing... I am just so confused...
Jerica. There is not a fine line between unconditional love and being walked on. That is thinking of the world.... To say that means you are loving conditionally. Take some time and think about what unconditional really means. Christs love for your husband is unconditional. No matter what he does.
Pray about gettng that wisdom to understand these things. It is very important that you have Christs love in you. Which I am sure you do, because you are doing this.
Go pick him up. Be a testimony, be the wife that Christ wants you to be. You husband is in need of more help than you can imagine.