During our walk I tried talking to hubby about if he felt I had too many expectations from him and he said no.  I had been thinking and praying about it the thing that came to mind for me was expecting hubby to think like me, have my beliefs, act like me,  etc.  I shared this with him and we talked about it some.  He touched that it seemed more about morals then expectations.  I prayed some more about how to incorporate the last part of the dare and I brought the topic up again with him.  He once again said it was more about morals because I have high morals.  That irritates me and then I have to ask what that means and I fire off with the questions.  Is not committing adultery having high morals? NO.  Is not acting like a single man and pretending to be other women's boyfriends and lovers having high morals?  UH No. But I disagree with that.  UGH so here is where the argument starts.  He thinks I think he is a womanizer and goes online to befriend women so he can have sex with them.  NO I do not think that.  I think that you have no boundaries and that you talk to women inappropriately.  You have no right to act like their boyfriend or lover or like you are a single man.  OK he agrees with that.  It's just so frustrating!   He talked about how he has customers who are friendly and call him sweetie and honey and whatever.  I stress the issue I have is the texts, facebook messages, emails and other things I have seen him write to other women that is clearly NOT OK and disrespectful to me as his wife.  We both are not on the same page I don't think about this topic.  I tried again to stress that I am concerned about his interactions with other women based on all the stuff he has shown me in the past.  He says that was before and he's not doing that anymore.  I am thinking to myself that how can he change this on his own.  I have also said this to him that I only think GOD can change us.  So that was my attempt at the dare.  Didn't go quite how I wanted it to.