I tried asking hubby about three things I did that irritated him. I referenced it as something I had asked him before. He asked why I was asking and I said unwanted to know so I could be aware. He said there was nothing and I laughed saying I'm sure there are things. He said he could not think of anything. I told him I wasn't trying to pick a fight or argue. He still claimed he could not think of anything. I let it go. He was kind of in a negative and defeated mood this evening. I know there are things he has expressed recently about me that I will focus on and pray about.  Feel kind of irritated he didn't try to answer but oh well I did try.