I wanted to show him honor with how I listened and spoke to him.  I quickly realized and caught myself when we were talking about something and my voice was getting a bit escalated.    Later we were suppose to watch this DVD before our counseling appointment the next day and he fell asleep.  Normally I would have been pissed off and woke him up and demanded we watch the DVD. I decided to honor him by letting him sleep and we would figure out a time later to watch it.  I asked him this morning if we could watch it before our counseling appointment and he agreed.  So we watched it this morning and he really got a lot out of it.   PRAISE GOD!!