I did the complete opposite. I did anything but let him win. I was so full of pride and did not back down on anything. I am trying today to make up for not doing the dare yesterday. Fortunately we did end the day on a good note. We had a really deep conversation and discussion about our marriage and we both agreed that we needed to move forward by making changes on both of our parts and we both had definitely played a role in the destruction of our marriage. Our marriage had been in trouble for some time now. It's strange because he sounded surprised when I said we didn't have a healthy marriage but then seemed relieved when I explained why and what I had done and what he had done to cause the massive trainwreck that happened. I am thankful that I have chosen to turn to GOD first now and rely on him to get me through this and help me to love my husband unconditionally. I am so thankful GOD has instilled hope and love in my heart.
The more you need to work on these certain things the more Christ will make the opportunities available. He is molding you each day. Take the time to understand each situation and pray about wisdom and strength to deal with them.
its like when you are reading the lvoe dare and each round, something new and fresh reading the dare. it is like you are thinking about your marriage and realizing how unheathly it was. It is great that you are recognizing and letting Christ leading you to make a healthly marriage again!
Thanks Sean I will! And yes it seems Christ is making it crystal clear he will continue to humble me until I get it. I am grateful that he is molding me. Praise God for that.
Thanks Murphy. I'm trying to be more aware and look at it differently. I am in a better place then I was when I first stared the dare and that's all thanks to GOD's love and grace.