Web site was down this weekend, so I have to catch up on my posts...one day at a time. For day five, I had a hard time getting an answer from my wife.  Her main thing, which I extrapolated, was that I do not listen.  True.  I already have my conclusions in a lot of conversations.  If they don't interest me, my mind wanders.  So, I have to develop better learning skills along the way.  Still need to pry out two more from her. Meanwhile, I feel like we're starting to get closer again and that I'm regaining her confidence.  It's still shallow, but I see the foundation building and I like it.