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  • Day 80 – Love is a covenant

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    I re-read the “Vow Renewal” document which I got from the internet on day 40. The title of the vow is “It’s seems like yesterday”. I liked the wordings of the vow, and I will most probably use it in our diamond (30 th ) wedding...
  • Day 79 – Love endures

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    She asked me this evening to signed some papers to transfer her car to her sole ownership but I declined saying that’s it’s not the right time. I wrote my letter (email) based what had transpired by asking for her forgiveness for not signing...
  • Day 78 – Love fulfills dreams

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    I having a hard time completing this dare because what my wife wanted right now is to have a divorce in which I’m against. But before she had this change of heart, these are the things she may have desired: 1. For me to quit smoking – I quit...
  • Day 77 – Love agrees in prayer

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    There were occasions in the past when the kids were much younger that we prayed as a family, but not once just the two of us prayed together. I asked her the first time I did this dare (day 37) and I got a a big NO. I didn’t even try to ask her...
  • Day 76 - Love is God's Word

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    I got a big head-start for this dare during last Christmas when I was on forced-leave. Since I just stayed home, I had lot of time reading the Bible. I was able to read The Gospels of Mark, Luke, and John, and had started on Mathew and re-reading Psalms...
  • Day 75 - Love is accountable

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    Today’s dare calls for finding a marriage mentor. I still have my marriage mentor (husband & wife) from day 35. I sent them a Christmas card and an updates on what had transpired so far in my marriage including my wife filing for a divorce....
  • Day 74 - Loves Celebrates Godliness

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    She came home early today. She was cooking dinner when I asked her where she go to church since we’re no longer going together. She rebuffed me saying that it’s none of my business . I did not expect to get a strong a reaction from her. It...
  • Day 73 – Love completes each other

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    Today's dare is about any decisions that me and my spouse can make together… Well, we agreed not fight about monetary matters once we go through the divorce. That’s about it and I hope and pray that stays. But the decision for the divorce...
  • Day 72 - Love meets sexual needs

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    Without communication, without intimacy, with only a one-sided love in our marraiage, I don’t think. I can fulfill today’s dare. God filling the void everyday and I thank Him for that… She went out before 10am today and came back at...
  • Day 71 – Love and marriage

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    I don’t’ think we really have a “leaving” issue. I don’t think we have we have a “cleaving” issue either until like three or four years back where she begin to stir herself ever-so-slowly away from me culminating...
  • Day 70 – Love brings unity

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    Just like the first time I did Dare 30, it seems the one area of division in our marriage is lack intimacy. Because of this, it follows that there is also lack of communication. No intimacy and no communication. My wife had built a wall around her which...
  • Day 69 - Love's motivation

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    She called from work yesterday because, she said, and she doesn’t want me to wonder if she ’ll be late. They’re having a dinner party. I got rebuffed when I asked her what time she’ll be coming home. She said, I shouldn’t...
  • Day 68 - Love makes sacrifices

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    “What is the greatest needs in your spouse’s life right now?” That is what today's dare is asking. I just received the summon for the divorce last night. My wife handed it to me herself and told me to read it. I told her I couldn’t...
  • Day 67 – Love encourages

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    I have so many character flaws. I’m aware about most of them now. Some I may have corrected when I started the Dare. Some I may have not. But one thing positive I can say about myself with respect to my marriage is I always tried to encourage my...
  • Day 66 – Love is responsible

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    I sent her an email last Sep 23, the first time I did Day 26, asking her to forgive me for all my transgressions. So I went to her room this morning and asked her if she had read the email, and that if she did, if she actually had forgiven me. She told...
  • Day 65 - Love forgives

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    Before we had this current problem, I think there were two instances in the past that my wife had really hurt me bad. First, when she had another bf (we’re not married yet) and the second one, when she had an EA with her co-worker 12 years ago lasting...
  • Day 64 - Love vs. lust

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    The major thing I’m lusting for right now is of the flesh. My wife and I haven’t been intimate for more than two years now. She keeps on rejecting me that I stopped asking. She even told me once or twice to find myself a girlfriend since she...
  • Day 63 – Love always protects

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    Since I started this journey last July, I have tried to avoid or minimize doing things which I had considered contributed negatively to my marriage : 1. Drinking - I totally stopped drinking. Not a sip of alcohol since last July. 2. Angry-outburst - none...
  • Day 62 - Love is faithful

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    Day 62 – Love is faithful I was in the basement using the computer when I heard her getting coffee in the kitchen. I went upstairs to the kitchen and saw her on the sink with her back on me. I put my face on her back and told her that I love her...
  • Day 61 - Love is satisfied with God

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    Today is Thanksgiving, and I would like to wish everybody a happy thanksgiving. I attended a thanksgiving mass this morning. As usual, the priest said to count and be thankful for all our blessings. I never really paid much attention to sermons before...
  • Day 60 - Love is Jesus Christ

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    We we’re both preparing to get to work this morning. When I went to her bedroom (used to be ours), since all my stuffs are still in there, she mentioned that one of our friends daughter will be engaged sometime in December and that we are invited...
  • Day 59 – Love is impossible

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    I ask her if she wanted to go to church this morning. She responded not to ask her that anymore because, she said, she’ll go to church whenever she wants to by herself. Then I asked her where she’s going because she’s ready to go. She...
  • Day 58 – Love seeks to understand.

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    Just like the first time, I don’t think I did this Dare satisfactorily for the simple reason that my wife doesn’t want to talk to me or be around with me. I was thinking of cooking dinner but she came home early today, and so she ended up...
  • How to enter your journal

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    1. Log in. 2. Hover your cursor on “Browse The Love Dare V:” on the upper left corner. 3. The drop-down menu for the days will appear. 4. Click on the day you want to post a journal. 5. When the “Today’s Date” page appear...
  • Day 57 – Love promotes intimacy

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    She was making her breakfast when I got up. I asked her somethings about the wedding she’d been to yesterday, and she answered me with annoyance. She said that I’m asking too many questions early in the morning. That definitely stopped my...
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