Collaborate without boundaries
  • July 14, 2018

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    I've got our girls and I'm heading to church camp today. We will be there for a week. Yesterday the police from the town that Nick (15) ran away to called me. They asked me if my son had returned home and I told them yes. They asked me how and...
  • July 13, 2018

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    I love my wife and always will because I am a Christian but she is in complete denial of Christ. Even though I was advised to do nothing concerning Nick (15) running away I prayed about it and felt like I needed to do something. I used what information...
  • July 12, 2018

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    My wife texted me a million times yesterday. Her texts were very long and accusatory. When read to my therapist he said it is obvious that she is unwilling to accept any responsibility. I answered her with as few words as possible in order to limit the...
  • July 11, 2018

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    I have been taking every thought to prayer. Complete reliance on God only. Trinity has decided to go to her next therapy appointment. I told her I think she does need therapy. She said she is going to go but she is going to tell them she doesn't want...
  • July 10, 2018

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    So much to think about today. I have told Trinity she needs to go to therapy. I need to try to enforce it. Satan has his claws so deep in my family that I just don't know what on earth to do. Any decision I make seems to backfire. Maybe I am continuing...
  • July 9, 2018

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    This weekend was packed with drama. I still struggle with many things but overall I'm doing okay thanks to the power of God in my life. The drama was with my wife and our two oldest daughters. I planned to go see my dad, who lives a couple hours away...
  • July 6, 2018

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    Yesterday was a mess. It was going very well until my wife dropped Trinity (14) off to me at the laundromat. Trinity decided to move in with me last week after court because the court order says the older kids can choose how they want to spend their time...
  • July 5, 2018

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    Wow, I don't even know where to start with yesterday's holiday. I was very polite with my wife and arranged for her to get the two younger girls yesterday morning since we have to split holidays in half. We are supposed to split them until 3:00...
  • July 4, 2018

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    I fought the flesh hard yesterday. I stood with Christ right beside me, rebuked satan and I texted my wife back every time she sent me a message. I was very nice to her and I'm not exaggerating, it was hard. After everything she has done to me I don't...
  • July 3, 2018

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    I'm getting a lot of great feedback pointing out what is obviously my pride getting in the way. I know I need to talk to my wife and leave the children out of everything but it's not as easily done as it is said. I feel so hurt. I blame her and...
  • July 2, 2018

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    Is this getting easier or harder? I really don't know. This weekend was so different than anything in the last year. I had our little girls all weekend. For months I have only seen them two days a week for three hours each day. It was so amazing to...
  • June 30, 2018

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    Yesterday was bittersweet. Probably the best day I've had in the last year, or at least the circumstances made it seem that way. Our two youngest girls started their week on/week off parenting plan with me. I picked up my niece and nephew to stay...
  • June 29, 2018

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    I was told last night that I didn't have to go to court then this morning my attorney calls an hour before the hearing and says I do need to go. It instantly felt like the day just turned to night. I cried and cried on the way. I just had to sit there...
  • June 28, 2018

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    My attorney called me last night and left me a message during church and said I needed to call him back immediately. He just wanted to go over all the agreements and what we will still be discussing in court tomorrow. I wish this wasn't happening...
  • June 27, 2018

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    When I picked up the girls yesterday for our visit my father-in-law walked to my window and started talking to me. Now this was weird. I haven't spoken to him for a few months (as advised by my attorney) because he has completely supported my wife...
  • June 26, 2018

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    It's hard to not feel dead inside because soon my wife is not going to be mine on paper. I know she will always be my wife though so I have to adjust to this new life until she comes back. I'll pray for her everyday while I wait. Biblically that's...
  • June 25, 2018

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    I got some mail from my attorney. The newest offer from my wife's attorney. It's not right but I've gotten so much of this stuff in the mail over the last few months that I'm now desensitized to it. The things my wife's attorney "offers"...
  • June 22, 2018

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    Busy day at work for once. Not much going on. I'm still rooting for my wife. She is in my prayers. I have to sit here and get prepared for court next Friday. I know not much is going to happen. I'm hoping something changes with custody and finances...
  • June 21, 2018

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    I'm still rooting for my wife. I know she can beat this. I totally see what satan sees in her. Once she puts her mind to something she does it. Unfortunately for me I'm on her chopping block. She's just a thought away from changing everything...
  • June 20, 2018

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    It was a good day. Just a couple of hurtful things. I bought a used phone for Aleigha because her birthday is coming up and her phone is not working properly. She needed a new one. We worked all evening on it. I got a cheap iPhone 6 Plus with a malfunctioning...
  • June 19, 2018

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    My wife is such a sweet person. I know the greatness she is capable of. She keeps trying to be nice to me and she wants to be my friend. She just doesn't want to be my wife. I know that doesn't excuse all the things she's done to me in the...
  • June 18, 2018

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    Overall it was a good weekend. I saw the girls Friday and took them to Vacation Bible School. Since it was the last day they had a picnic. So much good food. The girls had a fun time. Even Trinity went. It's the first time she's went on a visit...
  • June 15, 2018

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    I went to Vacation Bible School yesterday and listened to an excellent preacher. He talked about the good Samaritan. This preacher was so full of knowledge. I learned a lot of things that I did not know before. I just think it was amazing how Jesus responded...
  • June 14, 2018

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    I spent two hours in therapy this morning. It seemed like thirty minutes. I guess I had a lot to say. I went over all my struggles and found that some of them don't need to be struggles. I need to stop some of my behaviors. The therapist asked me...
  • Restored marriage video I thought I would share.

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cS06xhX-SI Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. ~ Romans 12:12
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