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  • May 25, 2018

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    My goal today is to remain positive under all circumstances. I will see my girls tonight from 5-8pm and I'm certain at some point I'm going to hear about something that my wife did that doesn't make any sense to me. I'm preparing myself...
  • May 24, 2018

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    I had therapy early this morning. Got a few things out in the open and ready to deal with. We only had 30 minutes instead of the usual hour and since it had been three weeks since my last appointment there was a book of things to talk about. I brought...
  • May 23, 2018

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    Spent the evening with my girls yesterday. We played a board game I picked up for them and we had fun. After I took them home I came back to my house and prepared for tonight's Wednesday night Bible study. This lesson had so many things that stood...
  • Divorce and Remarriage: What Does the Bible Teach?

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    I found this lesson online. I am going to study it over the next few days. This is for myself but I thought I would share it. I need to hold myself accountable to my marriage forever. No matter what my wife does. No matter what man does. Man does not...
  • May 22, 2018

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    New outlook. I must force myself to have a new outlook. I have to stop dwelling on this situation that I have no control over. As much as I try to put God first I still have my wife as an idol above Him. My every thought revolves around her. I love her...
  • May 21, 2018

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    Another weekend down and, although numerous people tell me things will get better, they don't. They stay the same or get worse, every weekend. Besides reconciliation, how can things get better? The truth can't change. The Bible's stance on...
  • May 18, 2018

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    I was on the verge of calling my mom yesterday because of finances. Then it happened, just as it always does, the Lord took care of me. I got a bonus at work for referring a friend to employment six months ago. This will keep me going for a while and...
  • May 17, 2018

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    Good news or bad? The hearing that was supposed to be tomorrow was continued until June 29, 2018. I have seen many people express gratitude to God for extending their marriage because of this. I will do the same. All thanks to Him above for granting me...
  • May 16, 2018

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    Am I stuck in a spider's web? That's what it feels like. Yesterday was pretty good until I got a little upset because Caleb wanted to go to the other house to swim. I know I should not let things like this upset me but it did. I tell him to do...
  • May 15, 2018

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    Ups and downs. Yesterday was a pretty good day. I'm not letting things bother me so much anymore. I worry too much about things I can't control and I think that's a problem many people have. I made a good dinner for the kids and watch some...
  • May 14, 2018

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    The weekend was rough. Friday night I texted my sister and toId her I don't think I can do this much more. I'm just too weak. She called me crying and I thought something was wrong with the but she said she was thinking about me. She told me she...
  • May 11, 2018

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    God gave us a beautiful day yesterday. I've been trying to concentrate on all things good. I helped a friend move some stuff to his new house after work. He has know my wife and me since we have been married. He listened to me and that's it. He...
  • May 10, 2018

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    Something happened yesterday. Something changed in me. I watched the movie Hoovey, which I recommend to everyone. I cried during most of the movie. There were so many lessons in it. The one thing that stuck in my head was that nothing we have belongs...
  • May 9, 2018

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    The confusion continues..... I want to be positive. I'm tired of writing negative things. My wife is a good person. She has made so many mistakes recently but I am waiting for her to make that one decision that can change it all. When I picked the...
  • May 8, 2018

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    Long weekend is over and I'm back at work. I didn't sleep well last night and I didn't sleep well over the weekend. When my wife texted me Friday and told me "happy birthday" it actually ruined my weekend and is still in my head...
  • May 6, 2018

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    This has been a long hot weekend. It has been wonderful spending all this time with Becca. Friday afternoon I received a text message from my wife saying happy birthday. I didn't respond because my attorney said not to. I can't have any contact...
  • May 4, 2018

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    Becca and I arrived in Charlotte last night to start our weekend festival fun. I was up for a while talking to my sister and brother-in-law. I told them what was happening and how I was doing. My brother-in-law said I should move on. He said he didn't...
  • May 3, 2018

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    Becca and I are going on a weekend trip starting tonight. Caleb said he couldn't go because he can't miss school. He said his mother found out and called him yesterday to ask if he wanted to hang out with her this weekend. He told her no and said...
  • May 2, 2018

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    Well my therapy session went an hour and ten minutes yesterday. I had so much to get out. I talked about all the reasons I'm being accused of contempt (inviting my wife to church, mailing her a marriage/divorce brochure, posting anti-divorce messages...
  • May 1, 2018

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    There was a mistake made in the court date. My next hearing is May 18th. Like I've said before, I don't think anything will be settled because there is just too much involved. It's unfortunate to be in this situation. For my eyes to be opened...
  • April 30, 2018

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    One year ago today is the day my wife walked out. On that day, in front of me, our children and her parents, she said she was going to rip our family apart. She has been completely successful in that. Friday I got mail from my attorney reminding me of...
  • April 27, 2018

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    "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” ~ John 16:33 When you can actually give in to God there really is a comfortable peace. No matter...
  • April 26, 2018

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    Fear is of the devil. "Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour." - 1 Peter 5:8 I was so fearful yesterday because my wife's attorney accused me of contempt of court...
  • April 25, 2018

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    So I have to see my attorney today as my wife has accused me of many things that put me in contempt of court. As far as I can gather the accusations are as follows: Manipulating the children to not want to be with her. Bribing the children to like me...
  • April 24, 2018- Round 3 Day 7

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    The list of positive things about my wife was not a long as the first couple of times. It's hard to convince myself of things like "My wife is a good person" when she lies about me abusing her. There are still many positive things about...
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