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The beginning of the “lasts”

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I realized this morning that the “lasts” have begun.  Last night was the last Thursday night I will live in our home with DH.  I will be on a business trip next Thursday night.  I will get back on Friday evening and move that Saturday.  Tomorrow, I will be buying our weekly groceries one last time.  It’s devastatingly sad.  Also, my daughter is driving in for the day to help me clean the house that I am moving into and start packing. It’s a two hour drive each way - I appreciate her sacrifice.  I am thankful for our relationship.  God has graciously provided me with so much support.

  • As the lasts bring what may be tough moments to swallow, also remember how in this journey that God has taken all the hurts in this trial and brought you much peace so often.  And as the lasts seem to be taken place at such a rapid pace, replace those thoughts that what really counts is this is a lifetime journey you are on and in this journey will be much joy excitement, love, peace, comfort, forgiveness, mercy, wisdom, and strength, all gifts of God for you.

  • He problably has seen in the past how when people d that they go to a point of hatred and fierce fighting and ripping each other apart.  And when he chose to go this route, he probably expected the worse from you.

    But he has seen the best in you through this trial.  And he will see the best in you after, (if it goes through) the d is finalized.

    And this can give him a change in his walk in Christ. and this can bring him into realizing a d is not what he wants, but his needs are really Christ, and you.

  • keep being consistent in Christ.  At least for me, it is a moment by moment battle.  Even reading your post, I hear myself think, Don't buy groceries for him the last week.  How sad of a thought that would come into my head.  

    So, keep being you in Christ, and if fleshy thoughts pop up in your head to get back at him like it did in my head, keep leading your heart.  

  • Several people have told me that they wouldn’t have bought groceries for him this week. I am resolved to love him to the end. My love for him never changed. And so I have tried hard to surrender my desire to strike back at him,  and I am resolved to act in loving ways as long as God will give me opportunity.

  • Several people have told me that they wouldn’t have bought groceries for him this week. I am resolved to love him to the end. My love for him never changed. And so I have tried hard to surrender my desire to strike back at him,  and I am resolved to act in loving ways as long as God will give me opportunity.

  • Several people have told me that they wouldn’t have bought groceries for him this week. I am resolved to love him to the end. My love for him never changed. And so I have tried hard to surrender my desire to strike back at him,  and I am resolved to act in loving ways as long as God will give me opportunity.

  • People think I'm crazy for doing nice things for my wife after everything she has done to me. But I have no hatred in me. I have to love my wife even after she leaves. You do too. Our spouses will have to admit someday that they saw us try to the end. You keep doing what makes God happy and don't worry about what any human thinks.

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