Collaborate without boundaries

Day 22 Difficult but Done

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It surely is impossible to love DH without God's love in my heart.  Left to my humanness, I would not respond to DH with words or actions of love, knowing they will be met with rejection.  God gives me desire courage, and strength to love in the face of rejection.

This was a very hard dare for me.  Maybe because I was more concerned about what DH would think than about what God would think. Lightbulb moment just now.  As I went towards the bedroom, I said "Goodnight", and then added "I love you. And no matter what, I will always choose to love you."  As I expected , there was no response.  But God enabled me to do it.  I wanted to sound sweet when I said it, but I think that I just sounded sad.  It's all I could muster up.  I am sad.  

Thank you, God for enabling me to tell DH that I love him.

  • Welcome.  The difficult dares, when attempted the best you can, such as the way you did offer the most growth in Christ, just what he needs to see consistently.

    Continue to not look for or have any expectations from him, especially when doing a dare.

    This is a journey, between you and Christ, not you and him.  He is being used as a tool to mold you.  do a dare a day, no more, no less, so he has the space he thinks he needs.  

    don't read ahead in the  book, except the appendix, especially about leading the heart.  

    Keep sharing the love God has given you with him, especially in the midst of being ignored.  And, if things get worse before it gets better, do not worry, for this  has purpose.  

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