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  • Rejoice in God always, praise, ask, and peace above understanding

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    You all have made such great strides. Each of you said things you I don't think could have when we first met. Praise God we are all walking toward him. Candie has told me off and on for a year to set boundaries, David is honest enough to say it and...
  • feeling like a hypocrite

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    I woke up with one minute before my alarm went off. thought that was strange. Then i hear what is my wife again coming home at 444 am. She probably then heard my alarm go off and it seemed she was trying to hurry to bed so i wouldn't see her come...
  • from the last entry

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    I appreciate everyone's input. And it has clarified a little more what has been in the back of my mind. I thought i owed a response to all your kindness you have shown. To ask her to change will be throwing down an ultimatum. And a line in the sand...
  • talk about out late

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    My birthday was Saturday. I went to my moms to do yard work for her. Then she and I watched a football game. After the game the rest of the family came over for a traditional birthday meal my mom does for each of her kids, not usually on our birthdays...
  • community

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    Just thought I would say thanks to all of you, be it the new kids on the block or the ones who have a little more wear on their tires. It is incredible to see each of you come to the site full of pain and suffering and do these uncomfortable dares, knowing...
  • After ice cream

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    As most of you know we went out for a quick ice cream treat. She for the about first time responded for anything at all saying happy anniversary back. Since then, she has been out of the house all day Saturday and Saturday night, only to sleep for 6 hours...
  • not dare 38, but....

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    I asked about a week ago if we could go out for ice cream on Friday,today. Being that it is our wedding anniversary, but I didn't bring that fact up. She shrugged her shoulders and said I don't know. I left it at that and didn't bring it up...
  • i tried

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    Got home from picking up one of the kids. i notice our bedroom light is on as i pull up to the house, which is a good indication she is going out again, which seems to be a little more frequent than it had been. I went to the bedroom as my normal routine...
  • 3 years

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    3 years now since she threw legal separation and d at me. 3 and a half years since she said she was already d in her mind. I am no longer getting venom thrown at me, or the d word. Still many times a day biting on me, but those bites do not really register...
  • group prayer

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    Something I have been wanting to ask of all the participants on this site is for us to pick a time out during the week, say this Wednesday, 9:00 pm eastern time zone, and we all say a prayer for God's will to be done in this groups lives and also...
  • key number two

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    She told me this morning that her car was at the tire store because she went wide on a turn and hit the curb and blew out two tires. She said she wanted to go out there and clean out the car a bit. I said I could then drop you and two of the kids off...
  • war room and update

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    As suggested by Candie and i believe someone else on this site, I went to see War Room. It confirmed what has been on my mind lately. that i do pray, but it has been feeling lacking. Like I have been just going through the motions. It is a good movie...
  • What a messy night so far

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    One daughters birthday is tonight. She doesn't want to go out with just me and her mom, she wants some of her brothers and sisters to come I guess. One daughter we at taking to her first time on campus tomorrow. A four hour trip one way. Another child...
  • Only through God

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    In the beginning of this trial, my thoughts centered on how long is this going to take to rectify our marriage. It was the first PM I sent to Sean. I predicted odds from a 1/4 of 1% to 3% that we would stay together. 40 months ago is when she said she...
  • she's mad

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    She stayed home last night and watched tv in bed till 330, She even stays up late when she stays home. About that time I woke up from the couch and went to bed. She had her back to me, naturally, not like she was avoiding me. I said good night and she...
  • strength-who's

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    Not real sure why I am writing. Maybe for someone now that will read this, someone in the future, or to just put my words in print to clarify how things are for myself, or maybe for some of you to whisper in my ear what I need to do, or to shake me by...
  • trip and she's up and down

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    This last weekend we went on the annual family weekend with all of my siblings and there families and our mom. I got home Friday from work, and she just bit on me quite a bit. It is getting more difficult to keep so humble as I had in the past. I went...
  • almost said leave

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    I asked her for the checkbook to balance it. She went to her car to get it. I noticed a light flash or something and looked down. She left her phone on the table. He was calling. She came in and I had a stern look on my face that caught her off guard...
  • Why do I need to know?

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    Not the last month or so, but for months I had a hard time believing the best, and letting go of the thought of has she or is she cheating on me. She told me in the beginning that talking to guys was nothing to do with dating, just people to talk to....
  • a few more changes

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    I took one son out of town for soccer games this weekend. Friday night, she stayed home. Saturday morning we left for out of town. We came home Sunday evening. She had the other kids at evening Mass. She then dropped them off at home and took off, per...
  • a little conversation

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    The last two weeks she has stayed home more and has only gone out 5 nights total. A far cry from an average of 5 nights a week not all that long ago. She did get home at 519am one morning, but overall getting home much earlier than before, maybe like...
  • understanding vs believing

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    I always believed or understood the power of God. And always knew He can make great changes and how miracles are possible. In fact I am very certain one of our children was born healthy due to a miracle. But it sure seems I find a lot of Thomas in me...
  • her 2nd attempt

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    Several days ago we had a conversation that was interesting and enjoyable. It was about the school lunch program and how the federal government may be trying to make lunches more healthy for kids, but the kids aren't eating the lunches and even if...
  • asked her out

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    My memory seems to be fading the last few years. Hopefully not a sign of Alzheimer's. But if it is, I know God will be with me. I am sure I am just showing my age. LOL. But if I remember, many of you had suggested I ask her out or not to be afraid...
  • on my mind for awhile

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    Not sure how to word this....During the time of my dad's illness and after he passed away, I had been extremely busy and had little to no time to come to this site. And it hit even more how much Sean means to me and probably all of us for being here...
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