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  • a few events

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    She as she had told me a few days ago, spent the night at her girlfriend's new place. She left the house around 230pm friday and got home today at 545pm. During the day the boys and I cut the grass, fixed a screen door, trimmed over 20 bushes, working...
  • what a night

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    She told me yesterday she had plans starting at 3pm on friday. She has only told me in advance these things maybe once or twice ever. She also yelled at me because of all the kids messes. I'm thinking, if she would clean up more than once a week,...
  • back home now

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    I took off work friday to help pack and get ready for the weekend away. We still didn't leave till 4pm. I packed, did a couple loads of laundry (this is one of the few things or maybe the onlyl thing that i have rarely helped with.), fixed the ice...
  • Ill be back in a few days

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    Heading out of town. Look forward to being back soon.
  • more exposed to me

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    A sister in law called me. Her fiends caught her at a restaurant /bar with a guy that was not the guy she use to spend time with. And they were texting others seeing if we were separated. So more and more people are being exposed. I think everyone will...
  • protect your ears

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    I went out with a friend last night. He told me how his sister just told him her husband had abandoned her and the kids. He's moved from the east coast to the west coast, and now the midwest, but she does not know where he lives. She told him she...
  • peace, joy, love

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    I left for work and called her, she wasn't home yet. She text back I am fine, be home in a few. So, she got home probably a little before 6am. Funny thing, she actually came home about 9pm one night with a movie to watch in the bedroom. (knowing I...
  • receipt

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    She gave me paperwork to take care of. In it was a receipt for two pair of gloves and a hitch cover. I asked her who these things were for. She said maybe herself. I let her know that wasn't true. She became mute and started to leave. I shut the garage...
  • counting the cost

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    At a parish mission, I overheard the expression counting the cost. I have no idea why this was said or what it was in reference to, but it hit home. Below is what many of us do, say, and think. I am writing this for myself and anyone else this may hit...
  • quietly said ok

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    She's still goes out, but for some time now, has been coming home several hours earlier than before. A key or two that i had found months ago and i wondered if they were copies of his keys look like they may have been some of our very old keys. How...
  • preacher

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    Felt i should share what happened to me today. I made a cold call, sales call, on a junky old building with no name on it. I was actually not wanting to even stop. But i did, and then wished the door was locked. It wasn't. I opened the door and entered...
  • Prayers sometimes answered quickly but always answered.

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    About prayers answered. I thought i would share something that my mom just told me. As some of you know my dad passed away less than a year ago. My mom said, she just out of the blue one evening said James (my dad, her husband), do you love me? And the...
  • a longer, less calm talk

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    I was going over the credit card bill and noticed she spent more money two nights in a row than normal at two restaurants. She said the bills were for her and her girlfriend (who she has been friends with for a long time, not a new friend) and her girlfriend...
  • a short and calm talk

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    About 330 i heard a bunch of noises in the kitchen. i went up to see what was happening. A daughter leaving the kitchen and going back to bed. I then saw that she wasn't home yet. i prayed for an hour. No real answers given that i felt. I was not...
  • for another community member

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    I won't mention a name, but someone recently sent me a pm and said he/she couldn't come back to this site any longer. Reason being his/her spouse asked if people of the opposite sex were replying. This person was upfront and his/her spouse flipped...
  • in the beginning

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    Not sure why, but i think what i typed below is so dark it is hard to read. I think if you highlight it as if you were going to copy and paste it, it will be easy to read. Sorry. One of the things about this site is i wish they would change the background...
  • steps going forward a little more

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    i asked her earlier in the week if we coiuld all go out as a family to eat for new years eve. She said she had plans. Then quickly added that she hasn't had any plans (or has done anything ) for a long time. So, i let it go. I then asked her if she...
  • More ups than downs I think

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    I Got her some decent gifts for Christmas. She got me nothing. But I said I had bought a lot of things lately and that'll be my present. She looked at the earnings I got her and seemed like she liked them. When we went to bed she said thanks for the...
  • first hard night in a long time

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    She has been out every night for several nights, Christmas shopping, I am choosing to believe the best. Last night, I woke up out of the blue, and the thought races to me that she is out with him, because she is going out of town for a few days and will...
  • another attempt at trying?

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    I went to a friends house last night. We watched some football and I also got some work done on the computer while with him. The games were late and we talked a bit afterwards, and I ended up getting home a little after one am. She was as usual out for...
  • Todays prayers may be tomorrows help

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    We all pray for help today. And that is good. What sometimes we or at least I forget, that todays prayers build our relationship with Christ and build a foundation that will hold us up in the future. When we need that foundation in Christ. She has been...
  • the first big roller coaster dip in a long time

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    Things seem to have been getting a tiny bit better over the last few weeks. And the more I pray about how I gave an ultimatum, the more I feel led that I made a mistake. It was time to hold her accountable but not in that way. However, she said she would...
  • her submitting? Not sure.

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    I woke up, and prayed on what to say to her or how to go about all this. no clear answers at all, on if I am approaching this right or wrong, or what to do or say next. I went to our room, a sat next to her while she was sleeping, rubbed her arm, and...
  • what happens next

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    Wanted to go to bad about 3 hours ago, but want to be really tired when I sleep so then it makes it easier to stay asleep and not think of who or where she is. A friend was texting and seemed really lonely. So I went over to his house to keep him company...
  • 2nd day after the talk of being out so late

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    All the while driving home, I prayed how do I handle this Lord, if she comes home late tonight? Do I say something to her about not coming home late? I get the thought just see what happens, and most likely I will be asleep and have no clue when she will...
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