Collaborate without boundaries
  • kitten=smile

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    i told her how the cat was trying to rub up on and be friendly with the dog. She listened, not with a lot of enthusiasm, but she didn't turn her back. I had forgotten about talking to her back, and much of the time as she was walking out of the room...
  • forgiving

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    Here goes. Not sure what I am going to type till the words hit the screen. maybe just a way to sort some of my own thoughts. I got a request on LinkedIn from her girlfriend. the one that gave her a couple d lawyers' names. And I am sure got her to...
  • nearly 5 years

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    It's now nearly 5 years since in her head she considered us divorced. And 4.5 years since she told me she wanted a legal separation/d. Man, those first months/year(s) were just brutal. You guys and gals know what that feels like. But what a journey...
  • pray for protection

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    During prayer this morning, maybe my prayers for the last day or so have been answered. I have for a few days been struggling with is she cheating, is it more than an emotional affair or friendship, not that that is ok. And it hit, things have seemingly...
  • joyful moment

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    As I mentioned, she is I think coming home most nights earlier than ever before. and she is responding to questions or statements I make now and then. I still give her space, but may mention something about what happened at work or something i heard on...
  • testiment

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    All of you, new people and some of you who have been around for a while. I thank each of you for journalling when you feel called to do so or feel like you need to. Because so many times, I feel stalled or thinking selfishly, man, this is getting old...
  • follow up

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    Thanks for the prayers everyone. I asked her if she wanted me to bring anything up to the room since she was admitted for over night observation. She actually responded. I have had a memory that has popped up several times today. In this trial, we have...
  • A prayer please

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    She called the doctor. He said go straight to the emergency room. I'm 2 hours out of town for work. She called to let me know. Probably only so I could arrange the insurance. I offered to drive straight back to the hospital. But she said no. If I...
  • she said i need to talk to you

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    Whenever she says we need to talk, the fear factor hits the flesh, but for a moment, then I just ask the Holy Spirit to be with us as we have the talk. We had a bunch of the talks in the first year, that those words, we need to talk, can raise the hair...
  • prayer for Candie

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    Hi everyone. Candie would asked for the community to keep her in prayer. She has been in a lot of pain in the past days and has been taken to the hospital. Please keep her in prayer also at the 9pm community prayer time as well. thank you.
  • forgiveness, bible, peace

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    I went out alone last night for a meal. The kids all had plans and it isn't easy to go out with friends and have them questioning what's up with her or us. Before I ate, i stopped at an adoration chapel. Sometimes unscheduled prayer time does...
  • God's perfect timing

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    I have heard many times on this site about God's perfect timing. So, as most of what I say, I just repeat what I have heard others say. Kind of like a parrot. And I have now and then had a flash of a thought what is God waiting on with me and our...
  • community prayer on Wednesdays

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    Just a reminder if you can, please say a prayer at 9pm eastern time if you are able. Thanks. hey, my shortest entry ever! And probably the least amount of typos too.
  • community that prays together

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    Hi everyone. There have been a few times we as a community tried praying at the same time, once a week. So, maybe we should all start doing this again. How about Wednesday nights, at 9pm eastern time? You don't have to make it a long, drawn out prayer...
  • when things get more comfortable

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    For I think 4 weeks now she has continued to stay home other than Friday and Saturday nights. I would have figured by now she couldn't take staying home so much. She and one of he daughters have been watching a few movies together. I for the fist...
  • replying

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    Hello everyone. From comments and messages, some on this site I feel would rather not have me comment on their entries. That is fine. And it does not hurt my feelings. If you would prefer that I do not reply to your messages, please reply to this journal...
  • pray for someone

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    Many months ago, someone was on this site claiming she had success using a spell caster to bring her husband back from many other women. And to go to a website, click on a link, or call the number for more info. Someone has responded thanking her for...
  • not to bad again

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    I was sick Sunday and Monday. She saw me walk through the kitchen looking like I was near death. I was looking for no attention or help or sympathy. For the last few years, as I have mentioned, I have had to go to the emergency room for a severed finger...
  • not a bad day

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    a friend in church text me this morning. He has not missed a Mass in several years now. He led a rough life for some time and is not in union with the church. (my words, not the church's) We talk sometimes after mass. And I, in part, led him to confession...
  • Talked

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    She came home the last two nights after 3am. Usually I never hear her come in. The first night I stayed up to pray if it was time again to admonish the behavior. I felt nothing. I prayed the next day and still not much. I had the sense of Be still......
  • renewing and selfishness

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    Praying while walking the dog today, it seemed like I was given the word renew. To renew my walk in Him, to renew....begin again.....have a new beginning. I know this morning it really hit me, but now, it's kind of sad, I have no real feeling for...
  • replying to someone's post

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    Not sure who it was, but I believe someone said they were going to give the LD book to their spouse. I would recommend not doing this. If they see that this is what you are doing they will look at it as a ruse to win them back, a step by step guide to...
  • snooping and hearing

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    How I probably sound like a sound track to some of you, same old answers.....dont snoop, love unconditional, forgive, be kind. Real eye openers, (sarcasm, LOL). So, I deserve a smack or two. Went in the bathroom she had her makeup bad open. a place she...
  • showing anger

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    It'll be 4 and a half years in less than a month since she saw us as d. 4 years since she told me. I took a daughter to a wedding yesterday. Over 9 hour drive round trip. She told me how wife still believes in God, but mom says she has a lot of issues...
  • no expectations and great expectations

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    I will be going out of town for part of the weekend, so I may not be on here Saturday or so. Keep in mind as most of you have, to have no expectations of your spouses showing any appreciation of your changes or the things you do differently now that you...
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