Collaborate without boundaries

Day 37 - 40

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Hello All!    I have been off for a while. I apologize for that.  I have been super busy at work.  However, I wanted to let you all know that I did complete and finish all the dares.  As far as it goes, it has not helped my position with my wife.  However, I am closer to God than ever before!  I love what knowing that He has something awesome planned for me.  My wife sent me the papers the other day, I had a lawyer look at them and they are fair so I am going to give her what she wants.  I will let her win this fight!   One thing I never told anyone, was 6 weeks before she kicked me out she had a Partial Hysterectomy done.  Its almost like the person I fell in Love with has died.  She is so far God its not funny.  I have a strong feeling that she is seeing someone else. She also acts different about spending time with our son.  I will continue to pray for her because I do care about her.  As far as being upset, God has helped me move on.  He has big plans for me!  And I can take what I have learned to my next relationship whenever that is.   I still say that everyone should do these dares, whether your relationship is bad or good!  I will continue to check in, and continue to pray for each and every one of you.  May God bless you all!  Merry Christmas to all of you!  And dont forget to sing Happy Birthday to Jesus.  Its great to get the Kids to do it. 



With Love,


  • Heath, so sorry to hear this.  I felt the same about the Love Dares.  I wish I had known about them before, but sometimes God puts you through a trial.  He's not as concerned about this life as he is your eternity.

    I can bet that the hormonal change due to the surgery has affected her.  There is still time for God to intervene.  Will keep you in my prayers.

  • It is amazing how selfish the spouses get that they not only abandon us, but often times the kids too.

    Try a round 2 if you feel led by God to do so.  Everyone says that what they get out of the second round is different than round one.  

    Whether your marriage is reconciled or not, you will be a testimony to others on this site who years from now read how much peace you have received in Christ.    and doors will open up to you now and then to be a witness to Christ outside of this site too.  I think you had mentioned sharing Christ at work not long ago.  

  • thanks guys!  I appreciate all the support I got here. I would have never made it past day 6 if it wasn't for everyone here.  I did help lead a girl to Christian at work a few weeks ago. it was a amazing feeling!  I will do my best to tell people my testimony and even share this site. The Love Dare is real! You actually learn so much about yourself then anything.   I will check in from time to time and try to comment as much as I can.   I will also continue to pray for all of you.

    God bless

  • When you share I think you will find that many people, unless they are facing a trial, will brush off your testimony.  But you will run across people that will listen and absorb what you have to share.

  • BoSox, don't give up so easy.  It probably is hormonal and there is something about not being able to reproduce that changes a woman whether she has kids, has no kids, or doesn't want any kids.  Just not having all the equiptment to do that anymore is emotional not to mention the hormones that you can not control.

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