Well this one was easy. My wife seems to be really far away from what God wants her to be. However, when she tells our son good night, she reminds him to pray. So I told her Thank you for such a Godly act, by having our Son Pray to the Lord before bed. She said I was welcome and glad that I noticed it.
God sees those that bring others to the Lord, such as your wife. Maybe next time you hear her say to pray to your son, you could say why don't we all say a family prayer together. And then you could lead a short prayer, short so it doesnt overwhelm her.
It is funny though, they want us to notice and appreciate what they do, but either get mad or ignore all the kindness we display.