Well today was interesting. Reading todays dare really hit home. I dont think it was for me to much, but my wife still hasnt let go of her parents very much. We always took her mom with us on vacation every year for the last 7 years. Her dad actually paid cash for a new car that I didnt want her to do. After selling our house we had for 5 years, we moved into a house that we rented from her parents since they owned it. They have always been nice to help, but we didnt have to have it.
However, for todays dare I called her and got her voicemail and left her a message saying "Hey good morning, I just wanted to call and let you know if I ever put my parents, family or friends before her, Im very sorry. You are the most important person in my life! If I ever did that was not my intent. You are truly the MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN MY LIFE! I love you. I hope you have a good day."
That was at 6:45am this morning. And I did not get any response. Which I am ok with. I will just be still and let God work!
Finally, at 4pm - She called and said she didnt get my message till just now. I said ok. She then talked about our son, and let me go. That was it.
Even when it seems nothing really happened in a day, God is working in her. She has free will that God will not take away from her, but He surely can place influence on her.
Praise God for this opportunity. Coninue praying that God will change you well enough for your wife to see and would want to be with. ;)