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  • 7/20/18 - Day 23 - Love Always Protects

    "Today is 7/20/18. Evaluating my own personal habits and choices over the last few years has not been an easy task. What started out as a hobby can slowly become and obsession. Getting rid of my camera a few weeks back was one of the biggest obstacles...
  • New Book Buys :)

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    Picked these two books up to assist in the journey! They do offer multiple versions of the first book. For example... for my.. Wife, Husband, Son. ect https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/31-prayers-for-my-future-wife-aaron-smith/1125849865?ean=9780986366765...
  • 7/19/18 - Day 22 - Love is Faithful

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    "Today is 7/19/18. Today was the day Erika finally came back from vacation. I was greatly looking forward to seeing her, but she elected to go over her male friends home for the night instead. Obviously I was not pleased but I just went with it....
  • 7/18/18 - Day 21 - Love is Satisfied in God

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    "Today is 7/18/18. It is the final day of vacation for Erika. She will be home tomorrow, though not sure if she will be staying here or not. Looking back and seeing how my outlook on everything has changed since I have began to open my heart to the...
  • RCIA Invite

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    Today, I have elected to take the step and commit myself again. I am going to go through the RCIA (The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adult). It is a long process but well worth it in the end. I invite others to join me in this journey. From my understanding...
  • 7/17/18 - Day 20 - Love is Jesus Christ

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    "Today is 7/17/18. I took the time to pray multiple times today. The final time i said three Hail Mary's and followed it up with the quote from the book. After that I briefly spoke to God and confirmed I am a sinner and gave Him my thanks and...
  • 7/16/18 - Day 19 - Love is Impossible

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    "Today is 9/16/18. A day of reflection is prayer. As I look back over the dares that I have completed and the one I was nor able to, I realized that God is the main point of the dares. Practically any person can push through the last 18 days and...
  • 7/15/18 - Day 18 - Love Seeks to Understand

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    "Today is 7/15/18. Erika is away on vacation so completing this dare as it was given was not possible. Instead I made the best of what I had and just message her in the evening and asked her a few questions. Asked about her hopes and dreams, biggest...
  • 7/14/18 - Day 17 - Love Promotes Intimacy

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    "Today is 7/14/18. What a busy day today, got tons of work done again for the 3rd straight day. I did have a little bit of small talk with Erika today, but nothing major until later in the evening. It is hard to message her when she is on vacation...
  • 7/13/18 - Day 16 - Love Intercedes

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    "Today is 7/13/18. I know, I know, I skipped a day. It was not because I really wanted to! i spent the entire day yesterday changing ut all of the light switches and the wall sockets, it took all day. By the time it was prayer time, I was out cold...
  • 7/11/18 - Day 15 - Love is Honorable

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    “Today is 7/11/18. Today the dare was to show honor. I made sure I held every door for her, including the car door. I carried all the stuff we had to buy and everything. My mindset going into this dare was to treat her like a Disney princess. The...
  • To Do / Keep Myself Busy

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    With Erika being gone for a week starting tomorrow, I am going to need to keep myself busy. I have compiled a list of things that I am looking to complete around the house that need done. Any basic tasks you can think to add? Keep in mind this is a large...
  • 7/10/18 - Day 14 - Love Takes Delight

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    “Today is 7/10/18.The dare was requested early in the morning and completed right after work. We took two of the dogs for a walk together. It was a nice enjoyable time together. We talked about some of the books that she is going to take with her...
  • 7/9/18 - Day 13 - Love Fights Fair

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    “Today is 7/9/18. I completed the fair fight lists on my own, then I sent it over to Erika for her input. She agreed fully with the list and did not have anything else to add. Going into making this list, I kept in the back of my mind how I would...
  • 7/8/18 - Day 12 - Love Lets the Other Win

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    “Today is 7/8/18. This was by far the most difficult dare for me so far. I prayed and I prayed and it took me all day to come up with something for this one. We never really had a lot of friction or things we did not agree on. The only thing that...
  • 7/7/18 - Day 11 - Love Cherishes

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    “Today is 7/7/18. I was only able to partially do the dare for today. I don’t feel as if we are at a level where this would be acceptable to fully complete the dare yet. What I did was walk up behind her in and put my hands on her waist. She...
  • Psalm 46:10 - "Be still"

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    Psalm 46:10 He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”
  • 7/6/18 - Day 10 - Love is Unconditional

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    “Today is 7/6/18. It was an up and down day as always. The day started off well and of course went up and down! The little out of the ordinary thing I elected to do was get her a blizzard from Dairy Queen!I did begin to understand that my love was...
  • Odd Spot

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    So this sounds counter-intuitive to me, but she is asking me for help touring new apartments so she can move out. I have agreed to help her, but not really sure if this is something I should be doing. It almost feels as if it is taking steps back. I obviously...
  • 7/5/18 - Day 9 - Love Makes Good Impressions

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    “Today is 7/5/18. So today started off pretty weak, but improved over time. To start, I tried to greet her in a friendly manner via text message. “Hey you! Good morning! Hopefully you slept well last night! All I got back was “Hi”...
  • Another Question!

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    I do understand the do a dare a day, no more and no less. Now with that being said, does that mean you should not do anything else from the past dares? For example..... Day 4 has you contact them and ask them how they are doing and if there is anything...
  • Thank You All!

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    Good Morning Friends! Just wanted to say thank you for all the continued support, guidance, and advice that you have all offered. It truly is greatly appreciated. This path is not always the easiest to follow, but by posting on here daily, I am held accountable...
  • Question Time!

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    So she is going to be out of town with her parents on days 17, 18, and 19. From watching the movie, I know day 18 is the dinner date. I don't want to skip that one and I would prefer to keep doing dares while she is gone. Is there are order that you...
  • 7/4/18 - Day 8 - Love is Not Jealous

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    "Today is 7/4/18. Fortunately I finished my fire pit today so I could burn the list. I had no issue with burning the list! In fact I found it quite easy. There are a few successes that I can celebrate for Erika, first being her transition from the...
  • 7/3/18 - Day 7 - Love Believe the Best

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    “Today is 7/3/18. Due to the busy schedule today, I was not able to complete the entire dare until late this evening.By the time I got to message her, she was already asleep! Makes for a nice wake up text tomorrow?! Making the positive list was...
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