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  • Day 27, day 28, day 29 and day 30

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    I haven't talked about the dares lately but I have been doing them. I have been overwhelmed with so much it has been hard to even stick to writing about the dares and only the dares... Day 27 Love Encourages - this is something I have taken to heart...
  • Pray For Me Please

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    Please pray for me, I just can't get out of God's way! I need to do THE DARE and ONLY THE DARE!!
  • WOW you weren't kidding about the wall...

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    My husband had to leave for work very early this morning, there was nothing bad about it. However, when I called him later in the day he sounded really sad and upset. I asked him what was wrong and he didn't want to tell me. Something happened and...
  • Day 5 - I could have used this one yesterday!

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    Today was hard, I was frightened he might actually leave after I hurt him so badly last night. I asked him the dare question and his response was "What would it matter if I told you?" I told him it would matter a lot. He didn't answer and...
  • Day 13 love fights fair

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    It is so sad but I can't bring this to him to discuss, our line of communication is just not that open and he will just view it as my telling him what to do. So I will do what it asks of me to do for my part. Today was today... I left work and I always...
  • Day 14 ... taking delight

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    Today was a day that caused me to realize the depth of our relationship and how God is using this journey and my husbands to bring us closer together not farther apart as he thinks. I woke up from an awful nightmare. I rarely ever have bad dreams but...
  • Day 9 cherished

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    I'm so sad i cant handle it. He's back yo sleeping in the floor and hurting himself, he wont use the cot. I'm selfish if he stays for me but tortures himself, right? But i cant bring mysel to let him go. What does that make me? What do i do...
  • Day 11 Cherished - whatever...

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    I read the chapter spent the day in my appreciation room. Thinking on all the wonderful things about my husband. How our lives used to be so wonderful and playful and loving and caring. He used to do the most amazing little things and not it hurts so...
  • Day 16 - Yahoo... I LOVED this dare!

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    I loved loved loved loved this dare!!! Remembering the power of Prayer. We pray together every morning before we leave the house for the day. We pray at meals, and we pray at night sometimes not as much as we used to. But praying for him all day was so...
  • Day 20 - Love IS Jesus Christ

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    This was an amazing chapter to read and dare to. My salvation and faith in our Lord and Savior has never waivered since I became a Christ Follower at 16. My testimony is for another day. This chapter just solidified for me that the problems we are having...
  • Day 22 Love is Faithful

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    Today was a day. Its my birthday and I didn't want it to happen. Not because of what age I am, but rather the unknown of being with my husband but him not wanting to be with me. I didn't want to have any expectations. Work was overwhelming, my...
  • Day 4 - I FAILED!!!! EPIC failure

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    I did great on the challenge today, it was kind of a back and forth with my husband it actually felt so special..... Then..... I had a dental appointment and I hate the dentist and I was in real pain on the way home. I went to pick up our prescriptions...
  • Day 26 Love is responsible part 2

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    Last night was really hard. I will just leave it at that. This morning on Facebook a friend, a pastor that used to work at our church posted a writing from a Dr. friend of his. It was about disconnection, depression, and suicide. He was let go at our...
  • the struggle - its so hard.. it breaks

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    My husband was on a business trip the last 4 days and I took the time to delve into depression and what it looks like in a man and how to best support and love them through it. it was horrific, sad, and very enlightening. I spent a lot of my time reading...
  • Facebook

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    I need to tell someone and i can't tell the inky person who i share my heart with. My husband has been on and off of facebook since all this happened. When he is on he never acknowledges anything i post or that i like his posts. I mentioned it ince...
  • Day 23 Love always protects

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    This was difficult because I had done all that this tells us to do immediately. My husband was very clear about what things were 'in the way' of me showing him compassion and respect. The TV at night and my work never ending at home because I...
  • This weekend...

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    This weekend we 'had' to go up to the cabin. There was an issue with our neighbor. The trip was not for 'fun'. But God had other plans. We got up there Friday late afternoon. We hung out and took care of some things. We then watched a...
  • Day 12 - Let Him WIN!

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    So I don't know how I got my day count so off, but I am actually on day 12 today. A good one after yesterday. I woke up depressed which is odd because I have never had that feeling before. We talked a bit this morning and it was very hard because...
  • Day 8 - Finally something encouraging

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    Jealousy is something I have never experienced. I trusted my husband completely and without limits our entire life together. He used to say that he was able to serve and be who he was to others because of the way I trusted him. It was so easy to burn...
  • DayTwo- unexpected and overwhelming

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    Since everything was brought out into the open 8 weeks ago my husband decided to stay because he saw my pain at thought of him taking time a way to "see how he would feel". However, he stopped sleeping in our bed as he felt this wasn't his...
  • Day One ... The Hardest Lesson

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    I am blessed among woman to have a loving, kind, compassionate husband. I am the issue. At some point he stopped 'allowing' me to do things for him and it hurt, so much so that I stopped asking. The problem was that, in hindsight, I wasn't...
  • Day 3 - oh the things God shows you...

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    As I sat in bed writing in my day three journal the Lord revealed the reason for the detour from day three To the mechanic. I mentioned my sorrow over having to "make" my husband assist me and be there to help me. Then it hit me, he's always...
  • Day 9 - God knows my heart... why can't my husband see it...

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    Day 9 - 4 mistakes.. Words just can't express the level of sadness and failure I feel right now. 4 different things today spiraled my husband back into the pit of despair. I have no idea how they all could have been taken so wrong. I know I have to...
  • Day 6 - Margins...

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    It was a difficult day, After reading the chapter 3 times I realized that both my work and our daughter cross over so many lines that there isn't room for a lot of the things I should and want to be spending my energy and time on. The hard part is...
  • Day 15 - Love is Honorable.

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    It was hard on a day like today not to get caught up in how good it felt. We spent the day working on things together and I listened to him talk about all kinds of things. It was a wonderful time, he saw me listening and it made him share more. It felt...
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