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  • Day 5 - I could have used this one yesterday!

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    Today was hard, I was frightened he might actually leave after I hurt him so badly last night. I asked him the dare question and his response was "What would it matter if I told you?" I told him it would matter a lot. He didn't answer and...
  • Day 13 love fights fair

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    It is so sad but I can't bring this to him to discuss, our line of communication is just not that open and he will just view it as my telling him what to do. So I will do what it asks of me to do for my part. Today was today... I left work and I always...
  • Day 14 ... taking delight

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    Today was a day that caused me to realize the depth of our relationship and how God is using this journey and my husbands to bring us closer together not farther apart as he thinks. I woke up from an awful nightmare. I rarely ever have bad dreams but...
  • Day 4 - I FAILED!!!! EPIC failure

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    I did great on the challenge today, it was kind of a back and forth with my husband it actually felt so special..... Then..... I had a dental appointment and I hate the dentist and I was in real pain on the way home. I went to pick up our prescriptions...
  • Day 11 Cherished - whatever...

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    I read the chapter spent the day in my appreciation room. Thinking on all the wonderful things about my husband. How our lives used to be so wonderful and playful and loving and caring. He used to do the most amazing little things and not it hurts so...
  • Day 12 - Let Him WIN!

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    So I don't know how I got my day count so off, but I am actually on day 12 today. A good one after yesterday. I woke up depressed which is odd because I have never had that feeling before. We talked a bit this morning and it was very hard because...
  • Day 9 cherished

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    I'm so sad i cant handle it. He's back yo sleeping in the floor and hurting himself, he wont use the cot. I'm selfish if he stays for me but tortures himself, right? But i cant bring mysel to let him go. What does that make me? What do i do...
  • Day 8 - Finally something encouraging

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    Jealousy is something I have never experienced. I trusted my husband completely and without limits our entire life together. He used to say that he was able to serve and be who he was to others because of the way I trusted him. It was so easy to burn...
  • DayTwo- unexpected and overwhelming

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    Since everything was brought out into the open 8 weeks ago my husband decided to stay because he saw my pain at thought of him taking time a way to "see how he would feel". However, he stopped sleeping in our bed as he felt this wasn't his...
  • Day One ... The Hardest Lesson

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    I am blessed among woman to have a loving, kind, compassionate husband. I am the issue. At some point he stopped 'allowing' me to do things for him and it hurt, so much so that I stopped asking. The problem was that, in hindsight, I wasn't...
  • Day 3 - oh the things God shows you...

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    As I sat in bed writing in my day three journal the Lord revealed the reason for the detour from day three To the mechanic. I mentioned my sorrow over having to "make" my husband assist me and be there to help me. Then it hit me, he's always...
  • Day 9 - God knows my heart... why can't my husband see it...

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    Day 9 - 4 mistakes.. Words just can't express the level of sadness and failure I feel right now. 4 different things today spiraled my husband back into the pit of despair. I have no idea how they all could have been taken so wrong. I know I have to...
  • Day 6 - Margins...

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    It was a difficult day, After reading the chapter 3 times I realized that both my work and our daughter cross over so many lines that there isn't room for a lot of the things I should and want to be spending my energy and time on. The hard part is...
  • Day 7 - what a journey

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    The rooms of my mind... It was so very easy for me to write the positive attributes of my husband, I quickly filled the page and could have kept going. It took a long time but I came up with 3 for the other page. I shared one of the things on the list...
  • Day Three - I never have liked roller coasters

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    Yesterday would have been day three but the Lord had different plans. As I had my whole 'plan' set up to get him something he would have no idea I would have thought to get him, my car began to sputter up the freeway as I approached our valley...
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