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Day 133: Love fights fair

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Day 133: Love fights fair


If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.—Mark 3:25



Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement. If your mate is not ready for this, then write out your own personal rules to “fight” by. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs. If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.


-- As far as the dare, I will stick to my rules from day 53.  I believe I have been “fighting” fair and will continue to fight fair.  I have learned that the fighting thing is an uphill battle, MB sees me as the enemy and is resisting any attempts I make to come between her and what she wants.   I will continue with prayers…for her, for me, for us, and against the enemy.  I just have to be consistent and wait on the Lord to be called.


I did have a brief encounter with MB today at the front doors of the school while picking up the kids.  We talked a little bit about Bella’s homework.  She seemed to be cheery when I saw her, not stressed like the other times when I see her.  I think with me backing off on the love dares some is helping, I think(??).


I was told today I need to be in fervent prayer asking God to bring chaos, financial distress, and anything else He will do to cause “pain” as a result of the MB’s actions and to make it difficult for her to continue in the affair (if she is still in it). Feel a little mixed about it (I think the point I was being told is that I have been “too nice” to MB through all of this, making things too easy for her.  MB is at peace (at least it appears that way) with the destruction, if she is happy financially, romantically, etc. why would she want things to change.)...but will let God handle this.

  • A lot of people come to the site  saying they pray their spouse finds happiness.  And to me, we shouldn't pray for them to be happy or in joy or peace while they are going against the covenant.  

    Maybe at the minimum pray that she feels convicted, understands what she's feeling, knows how to respond to it, and God gives her the strength to respond according to HIs will.  

    But in pain is where we all tend to change and seek God's will, not while we are at peace.  

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