If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.
Friday, March 19, 2010-------- Day 13: Love Fight's Fair...... I do not know if my wife and I would agree on healthy rules of engagement or " how to fight clean " but this is what I have personally came up with and with God's help we will have disagreements; but we will not fight dirty with " a worldly mindset " .
1. Have healthy Holy Spirit filled disagreements; but if there is a disagreement neither Rebecca or Timothy will resort to " worldly tactics " such as cussing or swearing ~ using worldly profanity which is unbecoming of a child of God and God is really saddened when we do things of carnal nature.
2. If either husband and wife have a disagreement; there will be no raising voices, yelling, or screaming.
3. Learn to listen to each other and if there is any offenses found against each other; to learn to forgive each other and not hold any grudges against each other. Say: I forgive you and let the offenses go; as God has forgiven---- we need to forgive and thank God for his grace in our marriage.
Well todays dare seems interesting. This is why. Today she tells me if she is getting a divorce or considering working on our marriage. We decided to give her time to think. She will tell me tonight. All weekend we got along but this being dare 13. It seems like she still is not trying. But. I have to admit that I see a change in me. I hope God makes a change in her. If not I am preparedat this point to let her go. I know God will take care of us both even though we both messed this up. PRAY FOR ME TODAY AS I AND SHE GO THROUGH THIS. THANK YOU.