Having removed that list of negatives was a lift of an anchor. It's so easy to remember how heavy even the smallest slights can bear burden on our judgement and love. I began to share the rest of the wonderful list of positives with her. She really smiled a lot, and we even found something we hadn't seen in years. A mix CD we had made at the beginning of our Marriage. It was sooooo Cheesy, but we knew then and there, it was God. He allowed us to find that wonderful CD and we relived moments that we had forgotten. Every night we pray together before sleep and every morning we also pray before I leave for work. That nights prayer was very special. It was said in a very warm embrace.