Day 5

Forum Post: Re: Still not sure on to day 5

Sean — Fri, 29 Mar 2013 22:50:00 GMT

as you continue this journey you will find comfort in Christ. Depend on HIm for that. And as the days go on and you leave more burdens on Christ you will see many changes in your daily concern

Forum Post: Re: How to ask the question?

Sean — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 11:40:00 GMT

Letting him know that fairness is not the issue but his concerns will also give yu understanding about him as well.

Forum Post: Re: Husband left me 10 days ago

Sean — Mon, 17 Dec 2012 11:19:00 GMT

Focus on the dares and the journey with Christ. He will mold you to be the testimony to bring your marriage to where it needs to be. Also in the appendix is a section on leading the heart. Take some time and read it, and most certainly pray on it,

Forum Post: Re: Day 5: Hopefully she will talk to me at all

Sean — Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:07:00 GMT

Why are you cornering her? The success of the dares and trusting Christ and doing them as intended, not the response or lack of.

Forum Post: Re: Seriously, Need Help

Sean — Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:05:00 GMT

Sad, Ron is now in the journal section

Forum Post: Re: Day 5, there is nothing.

Sean — Sat, 17 Nov 2012 12:34:00 GMT

LOL. Could have been worse. Take it. Again, Christ is molding you and the success of the dares is doing them as Christ intended.

Forum Post: Re: Day 5

Sean — Fri, 16 Nov 2012 11:28:00 GMT

Ron, to add, this journey is about you and Christ right now. Your wife is a tool that He will use. Build the relationship with Christ without Him you only can love as the world taught you and you see where that gets us.

Christ will mold you to be a testimony in His image, and yes it will get harder before it gets easier, but those humble moments are very important. Trust Christ, and learn from each moment.

Forum Post: Re: Day 5: Love is not rude....then I guess he doesn't love me....

Sean — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 12:44:00 GMT

Honestly I do not know how to respond to this. It's not like you post often of what is going on.

But I can say that the past is still holding on to him. There is a way to break that and show your growth in the dare journey, and if you are interested let me know.

Forum Post: Re: Day 5 - Not sure how to respond

Sean — Sat, 29 Sep 2012 11:40:00 GMT

The dare is clear. Be straight to the point and tell him what you are doing is about you not him, and you are looking for the shortcomings in your life to change them.

Forum Post: Re: Day 1: Love is Patient R2

Sean — Sun, 16 Sep 2012 16:56:00 GMT

It is in those tougher moments that is the testimony. By leading your heart and not following the emotion.

Forum Post: Re: How do I do this dare when my husband won't speak to me -- at all?

Sean — Mon, 27 Aug 2012 10:19:00 GMT

When you leave concerns with Christ, there can only be blessings.... No matter the response.

Forum Post: Re: Round 2 Day 5 - Love Isn't Rude

Sean — Sat, 18 Aug 2012 21:53:00 GMT

And as you grow in Christ your testimony will glow about you. This is where others will notice and with him and her it will step up the conviction

Forum Post: Re: Day 5

Sean — Wed, 08 Aug 2012 11:18:00 GMT

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Don't be discouraged. Seek out the blessing. Also his actions like the Facebook thing are a worldly poke at you. Stand tall in Christ.

Forum Post: Re: Day 45 - Love is Not Rude

Sean — Wed, 08 Aug 2012 11:16:00 GMT

If things are going well and it causes y to forget, the amybe a problem there. Be cautious of that.

Forum Post: Re: Day 5 Love is not Rude

Sean — Tue, 24 Jul 2012 11:15:00 GMT

The dares are intended to be something that is prayed upon, not a read and do. When you do not take time to think about it and seek Chirsts guidance, you are still in control. The mistake was not doing it before bed, it was just reading the dare and not seeking Christ in the process, so I have to ask, did you just read the actual dare or did you read the entire day?

Forum Post: Re: No game plan for this one right now

Sean — Tue, 10 Jul 2012 11:05:00 GMT

In the appendix there is a section on leading the heart. Read it, apply that thought process to these dares, and then love as Christ did and show those around you your kindness, your patience, your unconditional love

Forum Post: Re: Day 5, I read ahead

Sean — Sun, 03 Jun 2012 11:16:00 GMT

To answer your question. No it is never good to look ahead. The reason is this.

The dare is a journey between you and Christ. Not you and your husband. The dares are a way that you start trusting Christ and allow Him to mold you more in His image through each dare. So, no matter what the dare is, do it as it is intended without ANY manipulation from your own desire.

I would advise that you take some extra time and read the appendix especially the part on leading your heart.

As for anything being mostly your fault or his, it is both. In fact, I am certain that this all boils down to selfishness on both of you. But that is all the ways of the world.

Through this journey you will learn what love is, through the ONLY means you can, Christ! But more importantly, you will understand unconditional love.

Dont worry to much about your husband and his "space", do the dares. That will give him the space he needs while you take time to focus on building your relationship with Christ.

When you learn to love Christ first, loving others will come easily.

Forum Post: Re: day 5. hard for me to ask

Sean — Sat, 05 May 2012 10:27:00 GMT

sckbrenners,

This is the first time I seen you on. Are you doing the dare?

Forum Post: Re: Day 5

Sean — Sat, 28 Apr 2012 11:52:00 GMT

If you get time. To help it may be a good idea to read my journals. Many have gotten insight from them on this journey.

Forum Post: Re: Day 3,4 and 5....aahh I'm so tired now

Sean — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 14:22:00 GMT

First... These are games of the world. He is as are you... Following his heart. Not in the sense that you think. Following the heart is truly a selfish thing. It causes you to react at the situation of the moment without thinking or out of spite.

Read in the appendix about leading your heart. As for counseling, I am here everyday for any quesitons you may have.