Today I asked him to tell me 3 things I did that made him uncomfortable or irritated. I said I would not argue or justify my behavior just accept his answer and work on me so that I would not hurry him like that anymore. His response was silent he did not give me any answer so for now I will know what issues we've had in the past and pray that God helps me recognize things I need to work on and help me get better as love is not rude.