Day 5 was a day that I think may have ended my marriage. I asked my husband the question of the day during bed right before making love. That was the biggest mistake I could have done. I was busy through out the day with church and other things during the day where I couldn't read the website to see what the dare was for the day. So I checked while he was in the bathroom brushing his teeth. I told him I had something to as him. When he finished brushing his teeth I asked him and he asked me. Bad thing about it is he gave me five instead of three. He took about an hour to finsh answering the question and we got into a huge argument that ended really bad. I threaten to leave me. So he left the house, but he came back, but slept in the guest bedroom. We have not talked since. I will continue with this dare and I want give up know matter how much it hurts. Right now I'm hurting really bad.
The dares are intended to be something that is prayed upon, not a read and do. When you do not take time to think about it and seek Chirsts guidance, you are still in control. The mistake was not doing it before bed, it was just reading the dare and not seeking Christ in the process, so I have to ask, did you just read the actual dare or did you read the entire day?