Since my wife and I are currently separated, I resort to sending one email per day to "keep in touch" and to communicate the dares. Today's dare was about telling 3 things that cause her to be uncomfortable or irritated with me. I sent the email request to her but no response. I just said a prayer that Holy Spirit will enter her heart to be able to send me this list, but I’m letting the Spirit lead. I will be fine either way.Today I found out that she had taken off her wedding ring. Last time I saw her with the ring on was the couples counseling session about a month ago. Initially I got upset and then I turned to God again to recall this is not about her but about me and God. I do feel better. When I get scared, God holds on to me. Whatever happens is up to Him. Our marriage is in His hands. I trust Him with my life!She's so far away from me now only God can reach her.
What a humbling experience... That is a great thing in this journey. And do not push her to answer it. Just sit back and think about things she complained about and complete the dare that way.