Finding a system for accountability is something that I did at the very beginning of this journey. I began seeing a counselor immediately, but am considering finding a new one. He lets me talk for the entire time I’m in there, but I talk plenty as it is. I think I need some more feedback than he’s giving me. I opened myself up to my friends and my in laws. I have nothing to hide. Every day, someone texts or calls to see how I’m doing and to check on how the dares are going. I have had nothing but full support from all of my friends and my in laws.
I have two couples as marriage mentors for myself. My husband is not interested in talking to anyone. One couple that I talk to went through an experience similar to ours. Both couples are very strong in their faith and always available to talk.
I pray for the day that my husband will turn to someone to help guide him on his own journey, and I give praise every day for the people that have been put in our life to guide me.
Is your counselor a Christian one? If not maybe find one.