How ironic. I made an appt with a counselor at our church yesterday, came home and read about this dare. And I thought making the appt was my idea :)
The one thing I came away with from my counseling session yesterday was this: "Get out of the way so Christ can work on your wife."
God hit me in the forehead with a 2X4 yesterday......again, and this time I finally understand.
God will open your eyes when it is time. When you worry about your own journey and your relationship with Christ, you need to leave your wife to Him. While He prepares you to be the testimony you need to be, He will work in her life to get her where she needs to be to recognize it.