My husband and I just had a tiff in the car. Our children were in there too. I feel ashamed, as I should know better than to react. He had been picky all afternoon and I ended up snapping. I appologised and said I shouldn't have said the things I did. We're ok now, I just feel terrible though.
Today I commended him on how he helps our community as a volunteer fire fighter. It takes a lot of work with the training, paper work as well as handling the actual fires. Seeing we live in the bush, our brigade also handles accidents. A few years back he was one of the first on the scene of an accident where a 2 yr old died. It was quite horrific for him. Seeing it was also a family just up the road from us also didn't help. He really does do a lot.
He has been more considerate of myself and our children lately. I could commend him there. Maybe going away for long times, helped his heart to grow softer towards us. I could help him persevere more by appreciating him more
And that would be leading your heart away from selfish motives and more to loving him as Christ wants you too