I spoke to my husband on the phone today and said, "I just want you to know that I think it is great that you went to church on Sunday." This is the first dare that I have actually gotten a response from him. It was a negative one, but that's ok. He told me to quit the nice act. I told him that it wasn't an act, that I am just choosing to keep the promise that I made to myself, God, and him. He told me that I needed to have a little respect for myself. I told him that I do have respect for myself, I believe keeping my promise til the end is respecting myself. He said that it is pretty sad that I can't just accept that he wants nothing from me and that this marriage was coming to an end soon than I think. He then hung up. Shortly after I got a not so next text message from him.
This is the hardest thing that I have ever done, but I will trust in God and just continue doing what He asks of me. Pleasing Him is my number one goal, not my husband.
HOORAY!! He is getting unnerved by it all! He is seeing a change and doesn't know how to handle it, any response is better than no response it seems.
1 Peter 4:12
He needs to justify what he is doing. And with your walk in Christ conviction is crushing him.
When you hear these things, do not be discouraged. These are words of the world! This proves the spirit working in you.